New Cracked listicle on BBW porn

[lostonline040]

http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-2234-5-realities-life-as-bbw-porn-actress.html

an interesting article on our favorite type of adult content with input from Eliza Allure, Bunny de la Cruz and others. Its generic but worth a read to see the point of view of the producers of that kind of content.

one part i found interesting was when one of them was remarking that regular fat girls will sometimes be put off by a man who finds them attractive because she may worry that he likes her *because* of her fat. Of course a fat girl wants to be found attractive and not be loved *despite* her fat either putting her and her man in a bad spot. I always found that contradiction confusing -- if youre not attracted to her despite nor because of a feature then what else is there?

[bluetech]

I got a similar reaction from my wife when I first told her about my preferences. Her fear was that if I liked her because she was fat, that was all that I liked about her, and I would find her unattractive if she happened to lose weight. It put me in a tough spot, because of course I thought she was more attractive the heavier she got, and the logical conclusion was that the opposite would also be true, though I tried as hard as I could to not put it in those terms. I just tried to convince her that there are many things I love about her, and her figure is just a bonus. I think she is finally coming around to accepting that. 

[hiro]

If you are rich, you are going to worry that someone is with you because you are rich. People want to be liked for their personalities. It makes sense, but it isn't completely realistic. If you are good looking, people are going to like you because of that, and when you lose your looks, people will like you less.

If the relationship is solely based on looks, physical characteristics, and sex, it is a weak relationship. Still, most relationships are partly based on those characteristics. Just the way it is.