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  1. Best thread on this site ... hearing more would be great!
  2. I was publically exposed as an FA (without me knowing), in a small quite traditional community, and nothing bad happened. Lots of goods things might have happened, if I'd understood what was going on. It started with an ex sharing the contents of my laptop with absolutely everyone in an attempt to humiliate me. Most people ignored it and no one told me this had happened until years later. If people thought worse of me because of it, they never shared that judgment with me. But everyone knew. From that point on, every female that I was close to teased me with FA related stuff, or generally felt very open in sharing their kinks with me. Because I was quite young, shy and inexperienced, and thought it was a secret, this teasing made me panic and I would close up. I've been in a few relationships with people who knew I was an FA, but were quite slim. It didn't cause an issue. Looking back, I now realise everyone has their little private world of kinks and oddities. Among my friends, sex is generally an embarrassing and slightly taboo topic, but it's generally acknowledged that it happens and everyone has their own kinks and that's fine as long as no one is too brazen about it. The tiny number of people who would shame someone for being an FA are just looking for a reason to be an arsehole, and if they didn't know you were an FA would find some other reason to be an arsehole. The vast majority of people are just relieved that other people are as weird as them inside. In short, don't worry about it!
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