Sigma Male síğmã male (N): A man within the socio sexual hierarchy who chooses to live his life outside of the normal social dominance hierarchy structures of society. ... The archetypal sigma male is defined above all else by his tendency to forsake the traditional social dominance hierarchies of modern society.
I was speaking with Casey not too long ago about a disgraced user with an agenda hell-bent on doxxing SJ, and my response was "Hell, if he wants an address, maybe he would like mine!". Some would say posting 1832 E. Alcove Way, Anaheim CA would be a boss move, others would say it's foolish. Either end of the spectrum, you can't deny there is a zero fucks given attitude.
If anything you users have gleaned about me, I'm hoping it's a salty covfefe drinking, cigar chomping asshole. It is by design to a fault. Shut your suck, I'll punt you in the box for two nights for walking on the grass sort of thing. I've upheld this persona for a reason, maybe it's false bravado. Maybe the whispers around Internetfatgirlworld are true or false, but those are to be damned.
This is an interesting perspective for me, I'm a little stalwart when it comes to the pangendered toilet toaster being on the spectrum of gender and sexuality, so something besides alpha and beta male? What the French toast?
We've always had leaders and followers. Admiral Farragut's "Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead"? Courageous, and a vestige of masculinity from times gone by. Don Draper, in Mad Men. He takes what he wants, holds no quarter, and gives zero fucks about permission.
Do I need to go into what a beta is? We toss that word around flippantly like a slur. We see it all the time as a political attack. I'm not one to condone lapdog soyboyism, but I'm also going to say we need to Make Toxic Masculinity Great Again.
So what's a sigma in all this? Is it the pangendered toilet toaster of social constructs? Possibly. If you guys are high fiving your forties like I am, you might remember watching 12 Angry Men in high school. That black and white movie about jurors? Yeah that one. You want to see a perfect example of a Sigma, even in pre-Technicolor 1957? Henry Fonda's portrayal of Juror Number Eight. Strong persuader, not having the amount of braggadocio Juror 3 does, an obvious Alpha. Number 8 doesn't raise his voice, show a lot of emotion, but concisely shows how being calm and persuasive can cause a jury to really look at something that isn't so obvious.
Another great example of a Sigma, is John Wick. Keanu Reeves portrays this character that is a lone wolf, another trait. This concept of alpha beta and all these other Greek alphabet names started from the idea of a wolf pack hierarchy, which has actually been debunked, yet somehow it seems to be pop culture lexicon.
So well I might grumble into my whiskey about the B in LBGT defying the gender spectrum thing, it does give rise to the concept that a societal definition of a male's role is not just black and white anymore, well we might call someone a beta soyboy cuck, and I'll light a stogie to that insult, this is also showing that in society a term isn't really as definable as it once was.
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