My girlfriend

[scissortooth]

Well, if you ask me, you could mention something along the lines that once she gets back around you'll make sure there is not a single moment she feels gross with her jiggliness :). Reassurance with a safe enough hint ;).

[virginiayam]

Its actually pretty amazing that you could put your desires in the background to support her insecurities.

also; it would be super nice if we could see some more photos!

[Guest MUSEic]

Yeah, I made sure to let her know she looks good is and not to worry because her weight will go up and down. Also told her that I LIKE her jiggles and that she doesn't really have much of a belly but brought up the pulp fiction quote about pot-bellies.

A lot has happened since then, and she hasn't brought it up again, as per usual. Combination of busy, and I think she's definitely insecure about it, but I'm not convinced anymore she isn't inherently into feederism and just not quite aware of it's existence. She's fairly repressed sexually in a way. She was raised by pretty strict Catholics, so she feels weird about masturbation and porn (probably guilt / shame), and before me she pretty much only ever had sex drunk, even with boyfriend's. So if there IS some underlying feederism tendencies, she's definitely conflicted about it.

That description of her weight she sent me though is just so classically FA that I can't brush it off. Plus her history of comments. She could very easily "joke" about these things from the standpoint that she's insecure or conflicted about these feelings.

I'm probably not gonna bring it up again until she does, or unless it is immediately relevant for some reason. But let's hope that she keeps passively gaining in the mean time! If her clothes are as tight as she says they are, that could easily be another 5-10 lbs.

Plus, my mom sent her a package full of chocolate. My mom said there was so much chocolate she "wouldn't be surprised if K gained 40 lbs." Is everyone in on this?? Lol.

 

[Guest MUSEic]

Just spoke to her a little bit about her weight. It's been about 4 months since I've seen her and she says she hasn't worked out or weighed herself in that time. She's actually really upset about it and I feel pretty bad. She's under the impression she's gained more weight though. Last time I think she just replaced muscle with fat because she was the same weight (182 lbs). Idk how much more muscle there is to lose. That said, she says she won't workout because she no longer fits into her workout clothes or even her fat clothes. Idk how much of that is hyperbole, but last time I saw her she had room for at least another 10 lbs in her jeans. So who knows.

[Garlic]

Sounds tough dude. I'm going through a similar thing with my gf at the moment. Keep us updated.

Just always be supportive, above everything else. 

[ronnie17de]

Yeah. Sometimes it's a drag. Patience and unwavering support are key here. When are you going to see each other again?
Thanks for updating!

[Guest MUSEic]

6 hours ago, ronnie17de said:

Yeah. Sometimes it's a drag. Patience and unwavering support are key here. When are you going to see each other again?
Thanks for updating!

Probably not until November unfortunately. Great because she could be over 200 lbs by then, but shitty because she doesn't have me to make her feel sexy in the mean time ):

[Guest MUSEic]

Was able to get a surprise visit from the girl, and boy was it great! I'll spare you the personal details, but she's fatter than she's ever been. It's really showing in her face and her belly now. She literally can't fit into any of her old clothes. Only thing she could wear was some stretchy exercise leggings and an old billowy shirt, that's just barely long enough know to cover up her belly. She frequently had to keep pulling the shirt down because it would ride up.

Her boobs and ass don't appear noticeably larger. They might have already just reached capacity as far as fat goes, since she tends to be bottom heavy anyway, but her belly was  something to behold. It now heaps up when we have sex. I remember it used to be so flat, but now there's a solid handful in every direction. When she stands it's definitely starting to get a hang. She also has lots of pale stretch marks on her love handles, ass, and legs, but it's hard to tell if those are new or old. Her face is also noticeably fatter than 5 months ago, and significantly so from a year ago.

Overall, idk what her new weight is, but it's bigger and she looks great. She seems to think she is replacing muscle with fat, so idk if that's an indicator that her weight is the same. When she went to the doctor recently, however, she wouldn't share her weight. I think she's still probably a few short of 200, but I really don't see her stopping.

As far as how she feels about it, it still gets her pretty upset from time to time, but other times she has a better (but not quite positive) outlook on it. She told me that she had been dreading getting naked for me, but obviously it was a far from dreadful experience for me. Her feelings about it are still an ongoing discussion. She refuses to buy new clothes because she doesn't wanna buy "fat girl clothes." I'm trying to convince her otherwise. Despite my insistence multiple times that I enjoy the weight she's put on, I think she doesn't believe it or somehow forgets. Or maybe because she continues to put on weight she thinks there is a limit to what I can tolerate. Who knows!

At the moment she also thinks she has binge eating disorder. I am by no means a psychologist or psychiatrist, but I am medically trained, and I'm fairly certain she does not, though I do understand where she is coming from. Nevertheless, it's unfortunate she's not a true feedee because she would be perfect for it!

Anyways, just a little rambling update for y'all!

[Observer10]

In June your Mom sends her a massive amount of chocolate and jokes about it putting forty pounds on her - which of course is unlikely but makes a point: your mom approves of her and doesn't mind her potential daughter-in-law's figure. .  This girl has no eating disorder, just nurturing people around "helping out."  She obviously doesn't really mind her added pounds but it flies in the face of societal  "norms." Of course a half hour session watching the size of couple's entering and leaving Wal-Mart or similar stores will illustrate reality - and few guys I've seen with bigger partners seem unhappy. It will take time for her to understand that you are genuinely  appreciating rather than just tolerating the results. A ring on her finger after a feast at the Olive Garden might be a suggestion that will help enlighten her...  

[Guest MUSEic]

On 10/18/2017 at 1:00 PM, Observer10 said:

In June your Mom sends her a massive amount of chocolate and jokes about it putting forty pounds on her - which of course is unlikely but makes a point: your mom approves of her and doesn't mind her potential daughter-in-law's figure. .  This girl has no eating disorder, just nurturing people around "helping out."  She obviously doesn't really mind her added pounds but it flies in the face of societal  "norms." Of course a half hour session watching the size of couple's entering and leaving Wal-Mart or similar stores will illustrate reality - and few guys I've seen with bigger partners seem unhappy. It will take time for her to understand that you are genuinely  appreciating rather than just tolerating the results. A ring on her finger after a feast at the Olive Garden might be a suggestion that will help enlighten her...  

This is genuinely the least insightful comment I have ever received.

[extra_m13]

looks like a very good development, probably not a true gainer but fat enough and with a healthy appetite to enjoy it all, hope you are both happy with the recent events and thanks for sharing good luck

[Guest MUSEic]

2 hours ago, extra_m13 said:

looks like a very good development, probably not a true gainer but fat enough and with a healthy appetite to enjoy it all, hope you are both happy with the recent events and thanks for sharing good luck

Definitely not a true feedee. I think she would have presented herself by now if that were the case.

That said, I love the direction she's going in. Only problem is her internal conflicts. She said yesterday that she was feeling discouraged from hanging out with people because she felt fat, and that she "thinks mean things about herself that she's never said to anyone else." That was really tough to hear, and I kinda feel guilty in retrospect telling her I like the chub. After all that though she said she's gonna "go eat a lot of pizza and hope for the best." So go figures.

Long term I think I need to help her reconcile her body image issues, whether or not she ultimately gains or loses weight. Hard to address that unobjectively when I clearly like her fatter though.

[Guest MUSEic]

Quick update. Seeing the girl in just 2 more weeks.

Today on the phone she was complaining about needing to buy new clothes (she still hasn't), and passionately ranting against it. She then put me down for a minute when she pulled in the drive through, and ordered two sausage egg McMuffins and a drink. Just over 1000 calories in all. I don't think she knew I heard her, but if present behavior is an any indictor of the past hopefully it means  I can expect a couple more pounds since I saw her last.

[Guest MUSEic]

Well boys (and gals if you're reading), it finally happened. The girlfriend finally weighed in obese. 5'7" and 194 lbs. 50lbs heavier than we first started dating, and 75lbs heavier than starting college.

I'd like to say it was a surprise, although I've surmised for a while now that she was hovering around 200 lbs. She's actually been spending the last several weeks dieting to lose weight, and has been moderately successful, so it's likely she over the 200 line when she started.

Before the painful diet stint, I'd like to say she was looking significantly bigger than last time I had seen her, but not noticeably so. Still clearly at her biggest ever though, and her appetite was voracious. Sometimes she'd snack, then I'd make dinner, and she'd still insist on a late evening snack or ice cream! It was amazing, and a sight to see.

So, despite the weight loss, such an awesome feeling. I've been reveling in it all day, and now of course she's celebrating at McDonalds. I'm still here to support her weight loss, but boy would it be nice if she reversed course to 225lbs or even 250!

[ronnie17de]

What a nice surprise! Missed your updates. Glad to hear everything's fine.
I wouldn't fret about that diet too much. Diets eventually end and the weight starts creeping back. Celebrating at McDonalds might mark just that.
All in all your girlfriend seems to be on course to curvage land. Two steps forward, one step back and before long she's put on some 50 pounds, hehe.
Let's just hope that one day she truly manages to reconcile her body image with her body. Simplifies life big time.

And a question, if I might ask: Did she finally overcome her inhibition and upgrade her wardrobe? We all know stretchy stuff helps.

[Guest MUSEic]

8 hours ago, ronnie17de said:

What a nice surprise! Missed your updates. Glad to hear everything's fine.
I wouldn't fret about that diet too much. Diets eventually end and the weight starts creeping back. Celebrating at McDonalds might mark just that.
All in all your girlfriend seems to be on course to curvage land. Two steps forward, one step back and before long she's put on some 50 pounds, hehe.
Let's just hope that one day she truly manages to reconcile her body image with her body. Simplifies life big time.

And a question, if I might ask: Did she finally overcome her inhibition and upgrade her wardrobe? We all know stretchy stuff helps.

Yeah, she's still a little bit defensive about buying "fat clothes" which I guess would be plus size stuff, but she bought some extra leggings and a few loose fitting outfits when we had to separate last. Honestly, think that helped her state of mind not having to worry about whether 'this was the day' she couldnt get her pants up or shirts on.

We'll see where her weight goes from here. Although I'd be over the moon for her to go full curvage, I'm honestly just happy with that rare moment that I get to squeeze her belly during sex, and there's obviously more to sex than just her body.

That said, she's becoming very pear-shaped. She's always had a booty, but a lot of the weight is now going to her lower belly and hips. Boobs have stabilized, probably between a C and a D, which I like anyhow, but hard to know for sure because she only uses sports bras.

[Guest cutebelly99]

6 hours ago, MUSEic said:

Yeah, she's still a little bit defensive about buying "fat clothes" which I guess would be plus size stuff, but she bought some extra leggings and a few loose fitting outfits when we had to separate last. Honestly, think that helped her state of mind not having to worry about whether 'this was the day' she couldnt get her pants up or shirts on.

We'll see where her weight goes from here. Although I'd be over the moon for her to go full curvage, I'm honestly just happy with that rare moment that I get to squeeze her belly during sex, and there's obviously more to sex than just her body.

That said, she's becoming very pear-shaped. She's always had a booty, but a lot of the weight is now going to her lower belly and hips. Boobs have stabilized, probably between a C and a D, which I like anyhow, but hard to know for sure because she only uses sports bras.

Give her sugary drinks . Sweet tea, sodas, juices. She will get all those extra calories without even realizing it . All those carbs will make her hungry later and hence eat more. You should post a pic of her she sounds sexy

[Guest MUSEic]

55 minutes ago, cutebelly99 said:

Give her sugary drinks . Sweet tea, sodas, juices. She will get all those extra calories without even realizing it . All those carbs will make her hungry later and hence eat more. You should post a pic of her she sounds sexy

She is, but I probably won't be posting any pictures any time soon. She's not into weight gain or being fat, so I generally try to err on the side of being supportive.

When we started dating, I'd say she was actually similar in size and shape as your girl. It's funny, because at the time I broke up with a fatter girl to be with her, and I was super aroused by her skinniness because I hadn't dated a skinny girl in so long. The irony is she is now fatter than the ex was.

[extra_m13]

to me it just looks like you are having the time of your life, the occasional stepback may be only adding fuel to the fire which is of course a good thing to happen, thanks for sharing keep us posted

[Guest Museic]

Left for a little bit, but had to return to share some tidbits..

The girlfriend is STILL expanding. When I saw her last, she was probably a few pounds off her peak weight. She had started a diet, and upon our reunion was 194lbs, making her officially obese at her height of 5'7".

After our month and half reunion (and lots of great sex), we had to go our separate ways again and the lady made a point that by our next and final reunion after 2 years of separation, 3 months since I last saw her, that she would be down to her pre-separation weight.

The goal in fact, was to be down to her pre-separation PANTS size of two years ago. To put this in perspective, her pants size then was 29.5 inch waist and 40 inch hips/butt. When I left two months ago, she was straining to fit into her same pair of pants but with a 35 inch waist (she could wear but couldn't button).

Well, after about 2 months of this diet/exercise plan she tells me that she hasn't been following ANY of it, and that she feels the fat coming back "with a vengeance" and apparently "with friends." Whatever that means, it's clearly over 194lbs and probably over 200. By this point I'm salivating, and then a week later she asks me to pick up a pair of size 39 inch waist pants because she can't fit into her 35 inch waist pants AT ALL.

I thought maybe that had to be the stopping point and certainly she would see the light and I'd miss out on any of the weight gained before I get to see her after another couple weeks, but then I get a text this morning complaining about how her thighs keep rubbing together and how she needs to swim again. I convince her (against my own wishes) to buy a swimsuit and head to the pool, which she DOES only to get there and decide she'll start tomorrow. She leaves and goes to buy a big lunch at our favorite Indian place instead.

Obviously at this point I'm thrilled, and she's so clearly not. She's gonna be so large, and I'm just hoping she keeps it all on for our reunion sex in a few short weeks. I'm quite honestly dying of anticipation.

My guess is 205lbs. Hopefully 210, but that seems like a stretch. Nonetheless that places her firmly in the obese category, and I think it's finally safe to she's made the transition from chubby to fat.

[extra_m13]

i'm glad things are going well for you, sometimes a slow gain is better than a quick one because it defers the shock effect, helps the lady to accept it as part of life and just pick up a bigger size, instead a quick gain is of course hotter but may cause havoc in the near future in some unexpected ways

[Guest Museic]

Okay, so I had to go on a clothes finding mission for the lady. She had me pick up a couple larger items for her since she can't fit into her old stuff.

The pants: 37inch waist, 50 inch butt!

The shirt: 45 inch bust!

Like I mentioned before, when we started dating she was wearing a 30 inch waist and a 40inch butt. Her bust was like a 36 or 38!

(Of note, those probably aren't there true tape measurements, just the size of the clothes, but that's still a lot more girlfriend squeezing into clothes than before.)

[Guest Museic]

We move in together pretty soon. Seeing the girlfriend in about a week. The anticipation is killing me.

[John Smith]

On 8/4/2018 at 9:54 PM, Museic said:

Okay, so I had to go on a clothes finding mission for the lady. She had me pick up a couple larger items for her since she can't fit into her old stuff.

The pants: 37inch waist, 50 inch butt!

The shirt: 45 inch bust!

Like I mentioned before, when we started dating she was wearing a 30 inch waist and a 40inch butt. Her bust was like a 36 or 38!

(Of note, those probably aren't there true tape measurements, just the size of the clothes, but that's still a lot more girlfriend squeezing into clothes than before.)

[Guest Museic]

Ahhh, just a couple hours now! Suppose I'll update yall after the weekend!