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On 1/30/2019 at 9:05 AM, Anonymous$$ said:

@CarlGnarl i agree with you...we can't say that for most of us this is not a fetish, because it actually is. If you get turned on by a fat chick and not by gigi hadid (it's just an example😂)...yeah you are a fat amirer and i'm not saying this to offend someone (because i am a FA too) but because it's fucking reality and you have to embrace it

I think this is why I have traditionally gotten along with women, and they have liked me back. For instance last year I was dating a very thin young lady whom I had known for several months. She said two things: 1) I had no idea you were attracted to me and 2.) I thought you might be gay. 

First, I don't usually make it known that I like someone or am attracted to them - it's just my way - but second, she is so used to guys hitting her up - I mean EVERYWHERE she goes - and wanting her digits and obviously wanting her body, that it blew her mind that I wasn't like that, thus the "he must be gay" thing. 

But when we finally got together, it was explosive...at first I thought I wouldn't be able to do anything with her in the bedroom, but she was extremely aggressive, which I liked and which revved my engine despite her being around 110 pounds. 

Hey, I just love women...thin or fat but I prefer fat.

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I can't tell if it's a fetish or a preference. I image it must be a fetish. Almost all of the time, I'll masturbate to a woman who's either thick, chubby, fat, or very obese. But my mood varies. Sometimes I'll be craving absolutely gigantic women. Other times, just curvy women. If a woman is shapely, that does it for me. 'Shapely' doesn't mean fat, either. I used to work with a petite woman who was 7 stone, but she was shapely. As in, whatever bit of muscle and flesh she had sculpted very beautiful, womanly thighs and buttocks. One of the reasons skinny (and by that I mean skinny and unshapely) women do nothing for me is because there's nothing about the shape of the body to show they are developed, mature, and sexy. If there are skin and bone, then where's the femininity in that?

Here's the weird thing: I have a feeling I am less attracted to SSBBWs in real life and more attracted to slimmer women. But fat is a "short cut" aphrodisiac, so my 'lazy mind', whenever I go to masturbate, will sometimes seek out the fattest, most cellulite-ridden thing on the Internet. It's as if my mind says "Oh, you like fat, so more fat must always be better". But that isn't the case, and it can even be sexually self-frustrating. One time I spotted a really beautiful curvy woman wearing a bodycon dress. I went home to masturbate over the thought, but ended up putting on SSBBW porn. The result was that I came but never felt fully satisfied. Probably because my lazy mind had 'tricked' me and fallen into the more fat must = good fallacy, when what I really wanted to think about was that curvy beautiful woman.  

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On ‎2‎/‎23‎/‎2019 at 10:27 AM, Sons of Windsor said:

I can't tell if it's a fetish or a preference. I image it must be a fetish. Almost all of the time, I'll masturbate to a woman who's either thick, chubby, fat, or very obese. But my mood varies. Sometimes I'll be craving absolutely gigantic women. Other times, just curvy women. If a woman is shapely, that does it for me. 'Shapely' doesn't mean fat, either. I used to work with a petite woman who was 7 stone, but she was shapely. As in, whatever bit of muscle and flesh she had sculpted very beautiful, womanly thighs and buttocks. One of the reasons skinny (and by that I mean skinny and unshapely) women do nothing for me is because there's nothing about the shape of the body to show they are developed, mature, and sexy. If there are skin and bone, then where's the femininity in that?

Here's the weird thing: I have a feeling I am less attracted to SSBBWs in real life and more attracted to slimmer women. But fat is a "short cut" aphrodisiac, so my 'lazy mind', whenever I go to masturbate, will sometimes seek out the fattest, most cellulite-ridden thing on the Internet. It's as if my mind says "Oh, you like fat, so more fat must always be better". But that isn't the case, and it can even be sexually self-frustrating. One time I spotted a really beautiful curvy woman wearing a bodycon dress. I went home to masturbate over the thought, but ended up putting on SSBBW porn. The result was that I came but never felt fully satisfied. Probably because my lazy mind had 'tricked' me and fallen into the more fat must = good fallacy, when what I really wanted to think about was that curvy beautiful woman.  

For me its a preference, but a strong preference.

I still have sex with thin women (I live in asia where nearly all women are thin) but when I have sex with a fat woman its like pleasure goes up a 100%.

I can also watch other types of porn like smoking and mature so I know its not a fetish.

My problem is I wish I didn't have these preferences and I liked the standard thin body because I met a fair few women who were perfect for me to be in a relationship with but were too thin for me to be turned on for regular sex.

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@cupidoIn my case it's not a preference because i need a fat girl to be turned on...i actually think that a preference is helpfull in a social way cause you don't have to be focused on a certain type of girl but you have the possibility to have sex with all the women...so you might be a lucky boy in a certain sense

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I try to be a good person, so I admit my little "fetish" makes me feel bad sometimes. But I guess that's part of the allure in a way.

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