gLs3 Posted December 26, 2017 Share Posted December 26, 2017 So recently an old friend of mine from about 4 years ago started talking to me again. I really liked her back then and still do today since we’ve been talking. But she kept telling me I’m out of her league now. I was trying to get her to tell me why. She was saying that I wouldn’t like her. After some fishing and kind words I got her to tell me why. She said I’m actually fat now. I said how that’s ok and everything but she wouldn’t send me a recent picture. I said a little chub is ok and she said it’s more than a little. Also said let’s just you wouldn’t be able to bench me. We talked about the gym and she showed interest in wanting to get Back into it. Asked what her goals would be and she said to be less fat. Asked how much less fat and she said 62 pounds. So from everything she has said I know she has gained quite a bit. Not sure I’ll see her. I hope so. But how do I get to show me or tell me more about her weight? jimmyjogg, ronnie17de and riptoryx 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dionysus Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Just make her comfortable and be nice to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weightwatcher Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Don't pretend you haven't noticed she's gained so much weight. Just tell her she looks good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Share Posted December 27, 2017 7 minutes ago, Weightwatcher said: Don't pretend you haven't noticed she's gained so much weight. Just tell her she looks good. I have been saying that. Just not sure what she actually looks like. Can’t get a pic. She said for me to remind her tomorrow tho. So maybe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weightwatcher Posted December 27, 2017 Share Posted December 27, 2017 Does she live near you? You could ask her for coffee/lunch/to the pub etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Share Posted December 27, 2017 9 hours ago, Weightwatcher said: Does she live near you? You could ask her for coffee/lunch/to the pub etc I’m trying to get her to go to a movie with me but she is nervous I want to see her so soon. Said she will check her scheldule. Just hope she doesn’t put it off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 28, 2017 Author Share Posted December 28, 2017 So I was able to get her to send a pic and wow she certainly gained. More than I thought it was. I might share a before and after pic with her face cropped out. But I do really like her and want to remain respectful but at the same time would love to read people’s reactions. Oh the delimas of life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 28, 2017 Author Share Posted December 28, 2017 I think I’ll share pictures if anyone wants me to. Before and after lol jonkroll and jimmyjogg 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikola090 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 yes, it's interesting jonkroll 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jff86 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 But she wants to lose all that weight and you want her to keep it all, yes? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 28, 2017 Author Share Posted December 28, 2017 4 minutes ago, jff86 said: But she wants to lose all that weight and you want her to keep it all, yes? She has hinted she wants to loose weight but seems uncommitted. Saying things like i like I should get back into the gym but we will see. And she gets super excited when I start talking about food jonkroll 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jff86 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 1 minute ago, gLs3 said: She has hinted she wants to loose weight but seems uncommitted. Saying things like i like I should get back into the gym but we will see. And she gets super excited when I start talking about food I think most people do! jonkroll 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 28, 2017 Author Share Posted December 28, 2017 1 minute ago, jff86 said: I think most people do! She seems very interested in eating. Even challenged me to a pizza eating contest lol she keeps calling herself shamu or tells me not to moo at her when I see her. At least she knows she’s gained quite a bit of weight but it looks good. She looks better now! ronnie17de 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Observer10 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 Pizza eating contest while referencing her weight with terms like shamu? And after admitting she's gained over 60 pounds? Sounds like she's fishing for acceptance by you of lifestyle choices she has already made. This is typical when, at one level, one is enjoying freedom from their own sizeism and feelings of guilt but, at another level, not yet totally comfortable with the uniqueness it brings in regards to judgmental third parties. Since you seem to totally approve of the change I feel the two of you will be off to a good start. I recommend letting her set her own pace when ordering or eating, then build the relationship on other common interests. Please keep us posted. ronnie17de 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 28, 2017 Author Share Posted December 28, 2017 20 minutes ago, Observer10 said: Pizza eating contest while referencing her weight with terms like shamu? And after admitting she's gained over 60 pounds? Sounds like she's fishing for acceptance by you of lifestyle choices she has already made. This is typical when, at one level, one is enjoying freedom from their own sizeism and feelings of guilt but, at another level, not yet totally comfortable with the uniqueness it brings in regards to judgmental third parties. Since you seem to totally approve of the change I feel the two of you will be off to a good start. I recommend letting her set her own pace when ordering or eating, then build the relationship on other common interests. Please keep us posted. Thank you I will keep that in mind! And I will keep updating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schumacher Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 Wow this is awesome dude! Definitely show us a before and after, with the face cropped out of course Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 1 hour ago, schumacher said: Wow this is awesome dude! Definitely show us a before and after, with the face cropped out of course I will soon. Just need time to edit the pictures just a tad so you can’t see her face. I will post them tonight. Stay tuned Dionysus 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonkroll Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 Pictures? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 So the first picture is from about two years ago and the second is from this week. Wish the recent one showed more but you can tell for sure. I think she looks much healthier now. Wish I knew exactly what she weighed. I think she is about 5 8 slaptastic69, Avataг, GetThiccer and 6 others 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedaneweight Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 Nice difference. My advive would just be to let her know you You Think She looks good Maybe compliment her Butt/boobs gLs3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
le_gone Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 Yeah ! She blossomed nicely, she should be proud of such change, you should tell her ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 5 minutes ago, le_gone said: Yeah ! She blossomed nicely, she should be proud of such change, you should tell her ! I’m trying to without coming off weird. I keep telling her she looks good. Trying to build her confidence without over complimenting her if that makes sense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schumacher Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 Holy moly she literally became so much more yummy! You can clearly tell the difference in her boobs even if you can't fully tell the rest of her body clearly. Thanks for sharing dude gLs3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schumacher Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 1 hour ago, gLs3 said: I’m trying to without coming off weird. I keep telling her she looks good. Trying to build her confidence without over complimenting her if that makes sense Yeah let it come naturally and be chilled talking to her, asking her out and being out with her. I know you really liked her before and therefore also do now, and that you find her looks super attractive, but don't continuosly talk about her looks and their awesomeness, talk about other stuff too, and when it naturally comes to you, compliment her. Obviously compliment her when she talks about her weight, which then you would have to comfort her about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gLs3 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Share Posted December 29, 2017 25 minutes ago, schumacher said: Yeah let it come naturally and be chilled talking to her, asking her out and being out with her. I know you really liked her before and therefore also do now, and that you find her looks super attractive, but don't continuosly talk about her looks and their awesomeness, talk about other stuff too, and when it naturally comes to you, compliment her. Obviously compliment her when she talks about her weight, which then you would have to comfort her about Thank you for the insight. This scenario is new to me so doing my best to approach it right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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