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My Confession. Rewiring my brain to like only Chubby/Fat Women.


Gp8887

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It seems most people on this site are born interested in fat/chubby/bbw women. Im probably one of the few exceptions.

I am not attracted to fat woman. I like fit woman. However I have a gf that gained about 30 pounds, she doesn't like to exercise and eat healthy anymore, she changed from what she was when I met her.  I became depressed about that. I don't want to be the bad guy and just leave someone that has a good heart, because of the external. So rather than try to change someone that doesn't want to change, I focus on trying to change myself, and how I see and perceive sexual attraction.

So  since then, I started only looking at porn of BBW/Chubby/Fat woman, to intentionally  try to reprogram my brain. Its actually working.

I'm actually starting to get turn on by chubby woman and also I'm even getting sexually turn on by my gf fat rolls, and her bigger ass and thicker legs  when we have sex, which is weird because is really a  turn off for me.  But still overall  having trouble accepting my gf weight gain. Especially when going out. I think is because I always dream and imagine myself with a fit woman , like myself. Im very fit with 6 pack abs myself. I feel like now I am embarrassed and feel when I am out people see me as just slumming it with a chubby girl. It is very difficult at company parties as I work in an alpha dog environment,   all of my coworkers have very attractive wives and girlfriends that spend hours in the gym. I end up getting mad at my gf for gaining weight, and tell her to lose weight , not to make me feel good, but really for her own health, but at the same time I'm starting to develop  a fetish, only in the bedroom though, of her fat rolls and larger butt, and softer legs. 

 Has anyone else went through the same as I have gone through ? 

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On 1/5/2018 at 4:36 AM, Gp8887 said:

It seems most people on this site are born interested in fat/chubby/bbw women. Im probably one of the few exceptions.

 Has anyone else went through the same as I have gone through ? 

This is a really interesting topic.  I always enjoy discussing the psychological aspects of sexual attraction.

You've really only been attracted to thin women until recently?  How much weight would your girlfriend have to gain before you said, "Too much!"

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Guest grateful

I am skeptical that "reprogramming" works. How about convincing a fit fat-phobic woman to appreciate fat? How about changing any of the sexual preferences one may have.

On a good day, maybe this works. Maybe we love someone enough that it doesn't matter. (another popular belief)

The key is, on a bad day, when things are at their worst, where does the mind go for comfort? That's a tell.

We should know ourselves for certain before drawing others into our sphere so that both parties can simply be who they really are.

Have a heart to heart. She may actually like to be fit but doesn't know how.

Otherwise, consider other possibilities and move on.

I agree that being seen with a fat girl and having her know all your friends as your SO and feeling good about it is a reasonable test.

 

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Guest Fawn in Fall

I really don't understand why my husband likes fat woman grabbing their belly button or squishing their belly's ... He says that for him it's very womanly shape to have a big body.... On my case y like thin or thick woman but not after 200 lb then I feel they loose their shape...
He says chubby is cute. He gets very turn on.. and he is a skinny guy.. I don't know. For me a beautiful woman body was a healthy one, but now I'm also doing brainwash so I start liking bigger.
I'm trying to get a little bigger, so he doesn't look for other women.. but there is a possibility that I stop soon if I start not liking myself.... I just want more curves... Not to loose them.

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Guest grateful

Hi Rainbow, hope your adventure with your husband is a fun one!

Guys are visual creatures (so they say) and we love watching because of a property called "synesthesia". You may have to look that up.

We imagine how things feel when we see them....and if we like curves,  we always think women look better with them.

Guys tend to look at everything.  It's how we are wired.  But if they are FA's,  and in love, every ounce on their loved one is going to be much more powerful than 100's on others! ;)

Rather than gain so he doesn't look at others...which is a questionable motive and may not succeed, how about enjoying it together, knowing that if he does look he's wondering what you would look like chubbier.

My most powerful experiences in life with regard to my love of curves were always in a relationship, especially marriage, and my biggest fantasy is that somebody has done this for me out of love.

And yes, the ultimate experience is that my partner likes it too! :D

As small as you are right now, the changes with a little bit of weight gain will be striking and I hope you can both have a lot of fun with it!

Thank you for sharing.

 

 

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