adarrens1235 Posted May 2, 2018 Share Posted May 2, 2018 About the namesake. Any suggestions??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
growpiggy Posted May 5, 2018 Share Posted May 5, 2018 I had one. She really needed me to be into her and love her body, she couldn't do that herself. I did eventually tell her about my kink because I felt guilty about it I guess, I wasn't feeding her or anything. Told her that I loved her at any size, proved that the best I could, admitted that I would like her bigger. She completely freaked out about that last one, be real careful with that. Honestly, you're going to have to let your fantasy be a fantasy for now if you want to do right by her. If you complicate her disorder by making her feel like she isn't attractive you will set her mind off on a spin it might not recover from. These kind of things can go really deep. If you want to help her get better, make her feel good. Do fun stuff with her. Listen to her, don't try to tell her what to do. Do not give her advice on what she should eat or anything regarding diets, weight, what have you. Accept that you do not understand it or how deep it goes. The weight does not matter, the dieting is just a symptom of deeper problems. And it might take a really long time before she gets better. She needs to want to get better. In my experience, what helps most with that, is being able to see a better future, one where she's accepted and happy regardless of is she's a bit chubby or not. And if you're really really into the feeder stuff and you can't let go of it, you need to break up with her. Anything else would be unfair to her, her relationship with her self image is too delicate to mess with if she has anorexia. Me and my ex ended up breaking up because of the distance, but the last time we spoke she was recovering and she looked a lot healthier. Not chubby, and I don't think she will be, but radiant. Ah I miss her. WeightyMoments, itisreallyme, landcruising and 5 others 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Artresay Posted May 5, 2018 Share Posted May 5, 2018 2 hours ago, growpiggy said: I had one. This is a fantastic post. OP, you would do well to pay attention to this fellow. shady2003, itisreallyme and bigorange3 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
extra_m13 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 that is a very difficult topic. mental illness is very difficult to deal with, and this is one of the kind. depression, anxiety, you just don't really know how to help the other person and it can be a very long and dark road Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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