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Among other things, Stephens-Davidowitz’s data suggests ...that many men prefer overweight women to skinny women but are afraid to act on it

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If you define being in the closet as picking partners based on what society wants rather than what you want, many people are in the closet. For example, I am certain a large number of men are more attracted to overweight women than skinny women but try to date skinny women to impress their friends and family members.

Porn featuring overweight women is surprisingly common among men. But the data from dating sites tells us that just about all men try to date skinny women. Many people don’t try to date the people they’re most attracted to. They try to date the people they think would impress their friends.

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There are a lot of single men and single overweight women who would be sexually compatible. But they don’t date, while the man tries and fails to date a skinny woman even though he’s less attracted to her. And then there are women who practically starve themselves to remain skinny so their husbands won’t leave, even though their husbands would be more attracted to them if they weighed more. The desire to impress people causes all kinds of inefficiency.

 

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I've always felt "in the closet" because of my preferences for bigger women. Sometimes I look at really skinny girls and feel I must be attracted to them. But honestly, rake thin girls with no meat on their bones or curves whatsoever do absolutely nothing for me. 

I see women all the time that are probably over 250 - 350lbs and that's the ideal amount for me. And in my experience, larger women are easier to get along with -- probably because they feel unsure of themselves. I can get away with dating women who are just "chubby", unfortunately I don't think my family would be accepting if I brought a waddling sex-bomb home. 

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On 7/14/2018 at 3:03 AM, Sons of Windsor said:

I see women all the time that are probably over 250 - 350lbs and that's the ideal amount for me. And in my experience, larger women are easier to get along with -- probably because they feel unsure of themselves. I can get away with dating women who are just "chubby", unfortunately I don't think my family would be accepting if I brought a waddling sex-bomb home. 

And why would that worry you? It's your life and you who's going to bang that waddling sex-bomb. Why would you care what they think?

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for me, i don't think i am in the closet. my last girlfriends have been on the chubby side, and to be honest there not many ssbbw going around here so that is the fattest i could find and i also encouraged them to gain a few and then some more. then my wife, being really short at probably 5'1 and weighing 128 when we met was a bit chubby, has blossomed into a very nice 190 pounds and that is for now making me happy, i keep defending her from any fat shaming and hopefully she is comfortable enough to at least maintain the weight and with the years some more will probably come. as for the article and book, super interesting information, hopefully society will gradually wake up and just be honest about our preferences i think that would be positive for the whole of us. no need to hide anything really...

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