Feedee’s health

[Guest JennaP]

For those of you in a feeder/feedee relationship, what are your thoughts of your feedee as her weight increases? My girlfriend is starting to get incredibly out of shape, a single flight of stairs is enough to leave her breathing heavily for a couple minutes. She has a hard time holding a conversation on a brisk walk around the block, and definitely doesn’t last long on top during sex. I find her very sexy and like the way the weight has changed her body and lifestyle, but I do worry about long term health. Her vitals came back okay, with blood sugar a little high (probably spiked by a binge at Wendys before the appointment) we are thinking about cutting back on sugar in her diet a bit, which she doesn’t like that idea at all lol. Also working in some light exercise to help increase her stamina a little. She will still be actively gaining, just keeping track of her health a little bit. She’s over 200 pounds at age 21, so she has a lot of life left, and we both ant to spend it together.

 

anybody else have any experience or advice in this?

[Gusto]

If her blood sugar gets to prediabetes level, you'll definitely want to increase the fats in her diet and cut down on carbs & sweets. Have her get blood-work done regularly to ensure that her blood pressure, cholesterol, liver, and blood sugar are okay and to check for inflammation. Being sedentary is terrible for one's health, so it's great you're thinking of having her exercise. Even if it's just a 30 minute walk five days a week, it will help her carry the weight more easily, and possibly prevent the more serious issues.

[Guest JennaP]

54 minutes ago, Gusto said:

If her blood sugar gets to prediabetes level, you'll definitely want to increase the fats in her diet and cut down on carbs & sweets. Have her get blood-work done regularly to ensure that her blood pressure, cholesterol, liver, and blood sugar are okay and to check for inflammation. Being sedentary is terrible for one's health, so it's great you're thinking of having her exercise. Even if it's just a 30 minute walk five days a week, it will help her carry the weight more easily, and possibly prevent the more serious issues.

They gave us a little home blood sugar monitor, and so far she hasn’t had any high readings since, definitely not into prediabetes at all so we’re thankful for that. I still want her to cut back on sweets a little but so far that’s not working for her lol. She is talking a 15 minute walk daily, and plans to slowly up it. 

[Guest Bigasstaco]

Blood sugar isn't a reliable indicator of diabetes immediately after a meal, unless it happens to be outrageously high (300, 400, 500, etc) and even then it's not necessarily outside the realm of normal depending on what was eaten (that said it should be evaluated).

Fasting blood sugar (fast > 8hrs) is the more reliable indicator. If you're really concerned, pick up a blood glucose monitor from Walgreens and check one in the morning. Anything over 126 ought to be concerning. A random blood glucose over 200 (at least 2 hours after a meal) should also be cause to go back to your doctor.

[extra_m13]

that is a delicate question and there is no straight answer. at the end the best if for you to do a proper research and get identify what is really what you want as a couple and individually and get on it being aware of the possible drawbacks of it. living up to 90 years old is probably nice but i can assure that a diet will be very limited at some point. living at full speed and gaining freely is nice to, but probably won't make it to 90, probable the best advice is to remember that this is a marathon, a very quick gain will be more damaging than adding some pounds every year, at 200 pounds there should be still plenty of room to grow without affecting the regular lifestyle of a normal person i think. so that is up to you, let us know how that goes , thanks for sharing

[growinggoddess CLIPS]

Being a feedee I get the concern. That’s my only worry when it comes to gaining is to make sure it doesn’t impact my health significantly. To try to combat this I try to make sure I’m still keeping active and eating healthy along with all my amazing snacks. Have her check out things like curvy girl yoga it’s pretty fun to do actually and is a great way to make sure she is still getting some workouts in.

[Guest Bigasstaco]

I think the lesson learned is that gaining WILL impact people's health. Exactly how and to what degree may vary from person to person, but this is a reality we as a community ought to recognize rather than ignore. Life should not be lived in a bubble, but people ought to factor that into their decision to gain and how much they gain, and we should not hold that against people who no longer wish to gain weight or decide instead to lose weight.

[Rb20]

No, health is the biggest concern and biggest issue. Would you like to see your partner at 230lbs and all of a sudden get hit with diabetes or heart issues and they can't eat anymore or enjoy life. And you both have to suffer as they slowly die. No I'm not about that, and there is an alternative. Sumo wrestlers eat about as much as some of the biggest gainers here, around 7,000 calories. Their cholesterol is low and all they eat is fried food, they are healthy af and have no health issues. The reason is because they have no visceral fat which is fat around the organs and is what leads to diabetes. 

[Rb20]

The question puzzled doctors for years, until a study using computer tomography imaging looked at the fat deposits on sumo wrestlers. The study revealed that although the wrestlers have enormous bellies, most of their abdominal fat is stored immediately under the skin, and not behind the stomach wall within the gut or visceral area. In fact, sumo wrestlers had about half of the visceral fat of regular people with visceral obesity.

This fat distribution is crucial to understanding body fat and health.While sumo wrestlers are not what comes to mind when we think of fit athletes, their training routines are quite intense. In fact, sumo wrestlers are only protected from health risks so long as they continue their intense training. When sumo wrestlers retire and veer away from their exercise program, they almost immediately develop more visceral fat and the classic problems of obesity such as high levels of insulin, insulin resistance, and diabetes.

Evidently, the sumo’s physical exercise and diet low in sugar helps him to avoid visceral fat. So how can strenuous activity prevent sumo wrestlers from getting obesity-related ailments?

Exercise has been shown to increase adiponectin levels. This hormone sensitizes the body’s response to insulin, and guides glucose and fat molecules out of our bloodstream and into body fat, where they belong. This is important because an excess of circulating glucose and fats in the blood are precursors for diabetes and metabolic disease. It also removes from circulation toxic lipids known as ceramides, which contribute to insulin resistance, inflammation, and cell death

[Chevalier]

18 hours ago, Rb20 said:

This fat distribution is crucial to understanding body fat and health.While sumo wrestlers are not what comes to mind when we think of fit athletes, their training routines are quite intense. In fact, sumo wrestlers are only protected from health risks so long as they continue their intense training. When sumo wrestlers retire and veer away from their exercise program, they almost immediately develop more visceral fat and the classic problems of obesity such as high levels of insulin, insulin resistance, and diabetes.

Emphasis on training.  I myself do things to maintain and surprise with hidden muscles.  I don't think most of these feedees train, but I'm not gonna be an asshole to someone who's sole weakness or reason d'etre is eating; I usually am pretty easy to compromise with when I have fun, as that's all I remember, and I'm very thankful if someone wants me to be more interested. 

People smoke/drink/drug cocktail and nobody blinks an eye because it isn't that visible, and is usually encouraged in groups (except maybe smoking).  Then of course as adults, we live our lives and aren't really trying to hear others try to make us change, especially when those judging keep their awful habits, or want to constantly hassle more than those damn truth commercials, to only encourage a worse stress reaction.

I think generally short journeys 20-50 lbs, maybe 100 max, are relatively harmless, especially if healthy oils are used (olive oil, coconut oil, or any non-trans fat).  Person can always shape up later, and be like that fat guy in god of war movie (the Chinese movie, not based on Kratos), who couldn't do 1 pushup, to being able to fight the hero for 5 mins (a favorite feat of mine to see, especially for some former jobber).

 

[allgrownup]

https://www.inquisitr.com/5224390/scientific-study-finds-the-key-to-living-a-long-life-alcohol-coffee-and-being-overweight/

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The study, which started in 2003, found that people who abstained from alcohol or coffee did not live as long as those who partook. People who were overweight also had an advantage over their thinner peers, the report noted.

This is not the first study to find that obesity may not be as detrimental to health as initially thought. Earlier this year, the scientific journal Clinical Obesity found that obesity on its own does not increase the risk of dying. Researchers at Madras Diabetes Research Foundation in Chennai, India, found that it was not unusual for someone to be overweight or even obese without suffering serious health side effects.

“We’re not saying that people should aim to get fat, only that some people who are overweight or obese may be perfectly healthy, metabolically,” researcher Ranjit Mohan Anjana, a diabetes specialist, told India’s Telegraph newspaper.

My wife has as good a blood image at now (215-230?) then when she was 185. She also doesn't like activity, doesn't like moving, whether she's 185 or over. 

[John Smith]

Well, I no longer have to mind about the risks as my friend is no longer into that. Woefully.