Girls who freely show you their fat

[WhoDat]

I was making the rounds on behalf of a company to several offices in my town, checking in at the front desk of each.

At one receptionist's desk there was a young lady who was, shall we say, rather plump.

Of course I started talking to her about this and that, turning on the ol' charm. (LOL)

So she mentions she quit smoking several months ago, and I say, "Hey, good for you, keep it up," etc.

She says "Not good, I've gained 23 pounds."

"Awww, you're fine, some of us guys love women with some extra."

So she quickly pulls up her shirt right to underneath her boobs and this thick, fat roll of belly fat spills out, like fuckin' jello, boing boing. 

I'm stunned, of course, and turn red, and mumble something, and eventually leave.

No, I didn't make a date with her or anything, for a variety of reasons. Just let it be one of those OMG moments.

One time, too, I had a gaining girlfriend who would show her friends how big she was getting - she put a thigh up on a chair at a party once, grabbed the fat 

hanging off her thigh and said "Look at this!" 

Everyone said "Wowwwwww!""

Her best friend said "You're getting big, mama!"

I've also had experiences at BBW dances where someone I knew from awhile back would hold up an arm and wag the fat, showing an appreciative man (me) her "progress."

Not so much in the civilian world, though!

Any you guys have similar experiences with extroverted females showing off their fat?

[Guest sursurs]

I've only experience with girls not trying to hide their bellies when they are in bikinis.

[extra_m13]

probably only two short stories related to that. my lady... same lady... we are spending 10 days at her parents house. holidays. and so there is plenty of food , more than enough and we dig in almost every day until one morning she says look at my belly, lifts her shit up and show it, not hiding anything, not sucking it at all, it was a perfectly round belly it was super sexy of course my mother in law was there and i couln't do all i wanted but i did give my firm approval to that belly. another time, we went to a kids birthday party, it was at calr's jr so we has some snacks and a burger at the end of the party, that was customary for all the guests and for me it was my dinner. but for her, having a friends reunion a few hours later, it wasn't, she had a few more snacks and a full time dinner there, i waited for her awake and when she came back she was more than full and told me, -i was such a pig i had another dinner and now i am super full, look at my belly- truth be told that has been one of the sexiest moments in 6 years we have been together

[WhoDat]

14 hours ago, extra_m13 said:

probably only two short stories related to that. my lady... same lady... we are spending 10 days at her parents house. holidays. and so there is plenty of food , more than enough and we dig in almost every day until one morning she says look at my belly, lifts her shit up and show it, not hiding anything, not sucking it at all, it was a perfectly round belly it was super sexy of course my mother in law was there and i couln't do all i wanted but i did give my firm approval to that belly. another time, we went to a kids birthday party, it was at calr's jr so we has some snacks and a burger at the end of the party, that was customary for all the guests and for me it was my dinner. but for her, having a friends reunion a few hours later, it wasn't, she had a few more snacks and a full time dinner there, i waited for her awake and when she came back she was more than full and told me, -i was such a pig i had another dinner and now i am super full, look at my belly- truth be told that has been one of the sexiest moments in 6 years we have been together

Sounds cute as hell. My "gaining girlfriend" would sit up on the bed, on her knees, pull up her shirt and say "Look how fat I'm getting!" with glee, and, wow, yes she was!. But that was in private.  Those are moments we remember! 

[le_gone]

From my wife, of course it happened and still happens, and it is always a turn on for me. In fact, she knows and plays with my lust.

From other girls, friend of mine or friend of friends, when among friends, it happened a few times.

But from an unknown girl, like your experience with that girl at the front desk, never !  And I never thought it could possibly happened !

[dale28311]

I had a regular customer come in my store after I hadn't see her for a while.  I asked MS "Smith" how have you been?  She puts her good sized pot belly on the counter and says, "just getting fatter and fatter!"  She was slim the last time I had seen her.

[Chevalier]

lack of inhibitions can be a cute surprise if going lightly, otherwise it could be a memory lapse or drug addiction (both of which can cause weight gain for better or worse).  Was fun to traverse from a woman's feet to her fat after she started purring like a kitten from enjoying a good foot rub.

Also is fun if you can encourage a vacation from any type of weight loss as well, as it gets ridiculous after 10-15%.  And tonight we eat 😉.  Can even safely role play with low calorie stuff or seltzer type drinks.

[intruder]

classmate, very beautiful, did it sometimes. she got chubby coz of "winterchocolate". Once showed me her fat round gut and got red in the face. To another classmate she showed her belly and said quitly in a guilty voice: "I have a thick fat wobbly belly!"

[WhoDat]

Then, of course, there was that completely wasted girl walking around the club at 3AM with her button-down shirt slightly open, no bra, "accidentally" letting people glimpse her breasts and, by rote, her chubby belly. This is going WAY back, though. 

[tw71]

Yeah.... It's hard to find women like that, who are that comfortable with their size/fat.  But I've encountered a few over the years (and it's the BEST!).

A long time ago, I knew a SSBBW who had a job working in a FedEx office. When she knew she was the only one there except for someone who appreciated bigger women? She was known to step up on the shipping scale they had built into a cut-out portion of the counter, take a quick peek at her weight on the LCD screen, and then hop down, as a short-cut to get to the front area instead of walking around the whole counter. She told me she "liked to do that once in a while, since she was too big for her scale at home".

I also took a part-time, evening job once in a big call center. We were put in charge of processing a bunch of paperwork for a drug company. There were a lot of "interesting" characters working there. One night, a few of the women started discussing various diets they were doing and who lost weight on them. This big black gal spoke up and said, "Not me! My husband actually wants me to GAIN more weight!" Of course, the other ladies looked kind of shocked and quickly changed the subject. During one of our breaks though, I ran into her, in the kitchen area, and mentioned that I agreed more with people like her husband  ... and liked women with curves and some weight to them. She turned around and twerked her huge butt in front of me for a few seconds, saying "Like that? Yeah... That's where most of my weight goes.  My man can't get enough of that! But I'm trying to get some more weight in my lower belly too... get a nice apron and deep belly button going on."  All I could do was nod and say that sounded like a good plan!

 

[CarlGnarl]

I just got to Los Angeles, here for a week, and the first thing I saw at the baggage carousel was a young fat girl with roll of exposed flab hanging over her belt. Got my bag, walked on and saw...another young fat girl with roll of exposed flab hanging over. Whether it's on purpose or not, wow! This falls under "Girls freely showing you their fat."  

[Guest high]

That doesn't sound like Los Angeles, at least when I was growing up. They were all thin obsessed. My, how things have changed.

[Guest The Bitch]

SoCal may be relatively thin compared to other areas, but there are still plenty of fatties and chubbies. It's not the 80's anymore.

[CarlGnarl]

53 minutes ago, The Bitch said:

SoCal may be relatively thin compared to other areas, but there are still plenty of fatties and chubbies. It's not the 80's anymore.

I was going to say the same thing. In the last 15-20 years as billions of videos and photos have been uploaded and viewed, and the world, especially America, is getting enormously fat, the younger people are saying "I'm not only not going to hide my fat, I'm going to let it hang out." Everywhere I go, malls especially, there are young woman with their bare fat exposed. I was at a nice hotel/casino not too long ago and went up to the pool around 11 PM, and two girls showed up at the same time, both very, very fat and both in bikinis. I almost couldn't speak, they were so beautiful, but they spoke to me first! Nice people. Then their two boyfriends showed up and that was the end of that, lol......

[allgrownup]

Young women certainly can be a lot different from the "I need to shrink" women. The daughter of a family friend, (she's going to 30, don't worry) has been twice the standard size since 5-10+ years. She's well educated, has a good job, but continues the lifestyle. A bag a day chips eater plus whatever else. And she dresses how she wants. Wide clothes, tight clothes. Bathing suite or a bikini. 

I wish my wife would talk with her more often and that a bit of that "fuck it, let's eat" attitude would wear off on her

[tw71]

Yeah... to be honest, there are some things I'm not so much of a fan of, with the latest trends for women to just "do what you want, act however you want, and dress however you want" because "(mostly white) men have been suppressing you for too long!"  There's a lot of (often misplaced) anger out there. I think you see it with the #metoo movement, the whole transgender thing, and more.

So you're going to have some bigger women letting their fat hang out, not necessarily because they think it's sexy or anything, but as sort of a "screw you" to guys they think are constantly trying to tell them how they should look. If you went up to them and said you found it attractive, they'd likely chew you out as having issues, etc.

Given all that stuff going on, I'm kind of glad I'm older and not in the dating scene anymore. It seems like it's full of too many complicated minefields. The part I *do* like though is what was mentioned above. I think there's kind of a push towards "acceptance" in general that's a good thing. For example, I see a lot of high school age teens who don't think twice about hanging out with someone with a physical disability. They grew up around enough people telling them the guy in a wheelchair or missing an arm or what-not is no less worthy a person of being your friend than anyone else. That seems to also extend to embracing anyone who makes a decision they're content being fat. The stigma just isn't there like it used to be. Of course, the fitness fanatics will always try to make it one, because it runs counter to everything they're trying to accomplish. But they've got their own niche too. MOST people don't feel like spending hours and hours doing crossfit training is a good use of their time. People need to just live and let live, with all that stuff. 

 

[Guest MX8XV93]

8 hours ago, tw71 said:

So you're going to have some bigger women letting their fat hang out, not necessarily because they think it's sexy or anything, but as sort of a "screw you" to guys they think are constantly trying to tell them how they should look. If you went up to them and said you found it attractive, they'd likely chew you out as having issues, etc.

YES!  Couldn't have said it better myself!

8 hours ago, tw71 said:

I'm kind of glad I'm older and not in the dating scene anymore.

Unfortunately, as for me, I'm still in that camp--yet just old enough to remember what it was like before the s#!t hit the fan...

8 hours ago, tw71 said:

MOST people don't feel like spending hours and hours doing crossfit training is a good use of their time.

Haha! 😛

[CarlGnarl]

On 2/8/2019 at 12:40 PM, tw71 said:

 

So you're going to have some bigger women letting their fat hang out, not necessarily because they think it's sexy or anything, but as sort of a "screw you" to guys they think are constantly trying to tell them how they should look. If you went up to them and said you found it attractive, they'd likely chew you out as having issues, etc. 

 

Well, let me ask you - have you quizzed, say, five women who are letting their fat hang out about their motives? Or is your interpretation just that - your interpretation via your older person's perspective? Not meant to be antogonistic, just curious. 

[GayGayButch]

Well, the fact that i'm a girl surely helps me, me and my friends usually dress up together for parties and stuff and it's overall easier to talk about weight and all that.

[tw71]

On 2/10/2019 at 2:37 PM, CarlGnarl said:

Well, let me ask you - have you quizzed, say, five women who are letting their fat hang out about their motives? Or is your interpretation just that - your interpretation via your older person's perspective? Not meant to be antogonistic, just curious. 

I didn't do some kind of formal survey of at least 5 people, if that's what you're asking?

I did, however, run into actual situations with women who validated my guess that this could be a motivation.  One was a younger girl (in her mid 20's) who was friends with a few other people I knew from online. She dressed kind of "punk rock" and followed harder-edged rock bands (Disturbed, etc.). She was ok casually chatting with me, probably because I was older and she knew I wasn't interested in her in a sexual way. But she had a strong feminist attitude about men causing most of women's problems in society, etc. etc. She was also somewhere around 300lbs. with a big belly that she let hang out. I'm no psychologist, but I think she had some issues of self-hatred to deal with and reflected those on guys around her age as the source of her unhappiness. (It tends to be more socially acceptable to have those attitudes in the hard-rock/thrash metal scene, I think. Lots of people get into the music as kind of an outlet for their anger and displeasure with things.) . She definitely wasn't dressing like she did to attract as many guys as possible.