bangs15 Posted January 18, 2014 Author Share Posted January 18, 2014 Welp, she's 232 now and sex still revolves around feeder stuff and how fat I'm making her. She absolutely loves it, I just tell her stuff before sex like "I love how fat you're getting," "you're getting really big," "you wouldn't be nearly this fat if it weren't for me," "you'll probably be over 270 by this time next year no matter what you do" and she gets wet in seconds. Her limit was 230, but she's broken it and that turned her on even more and she loves telling me how her body changes have affected her life. "I get so out of breath so much easier than I did before I met you," "I used to have somewhat of a gap between my thighs, but not in the last [~15 pounds]" "I feel so much lazier," "*laughing* two weeks ago I realized I couldn't reach my vagina to masturbate when i put my arm behind me anymore!" "*laughing again* and my thighs have started getting in the way of when I masturbate, like, I have to push them out of the way *lols*" "My belly jiggles when I walk a lot more now" "I've noticed [the area around my vagina and the lips] has gotten... puffier and softer *laughing*" "My arms have gotten fatter and I have to readjust the flab when I'm sleeping now." "I just bought new pants a month ago and they're already ripping!" She's also told me how her new fat fetish has manifested with things like, "I find myself massaging my belly everytime I masturbate now " and "whenever I'm bored at work, some times I'll hop a little bit to feel my belly jiggle and it feels really good ". I have photos of her wearing the same thing in the same pose at 160 and 210, gonna try again at 240 and possibly post them, sans face. (Sorry!) tuckr0r 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenG Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 You're a lucky guy. You guys seem to be having a lot of fun with it. Go for it! :thumbsup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Professor Aronnax Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 How did I miss this awesome thread? Keep us posted on new developments. :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 She's now 240. I'm on vacation currently and she's promised to be 5 pounds fatter by the time I get back. Enjoy some feeder/feedee sexting + belly pics. Might upload the video if you guys express interest (kind of a dick move, lol. i'm pretty lazy) http://imgur.com/38ZMynC it's pretty explicit but don't expect shakespeare from two horny-as-fuck texters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 16, 2014 Share Posted June 16, 2014 She's now 240. I'm on vacation currently and she's promised to be 5 pounds fatter by the time I get back. Enjoy some feeder/feedee sexting + belly pics. Might upload the video if you guys express interest (kind of a dick move, lol. i'm pretty lazy) http://imgur.com/38ZMynC it's pretty explicit but don't expect shakespeare from two horny-as-fuck texters. Honestly, I wouldn't post the vid... Just my two cents as we've had user's significant others find out before and it's hurt their relationship and we have to take down the comment. I know you want to help build up the forum with content, but you can do that in better ways than breaking your girlfriend's trust by posting intimate thngs on the internet. You should probably ask her before you do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 Lol, I appreciate the concern, Ayumi. But knowing her as well as anyone knows their own SO, I'm sure she wouldn't give a shit as it doesn't show her identity. I'll ask before hand, anyways, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest temporary Posted June 16, 2014 Share Posted June 16, 2014 Assuming she gives the go ahead, I'll cast my vote for "interested." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 16, 2014 Author Share Posted June 16, 2014 Assuming she gives the go ahead, I'll cast my vote for "interested." Lol, noted, but I feel like it's being over-hyped. It's just a headless 13 second belly play of her squeezing her belly a little, lifting it, dropping it, squeezing it slightly then jiggling it softly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Yarmanz Posted June 16, 2014 Share Posted June 16, 2014 Super hot! Can't wait to here more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ittewa Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Wow, this thread is amazing. You're living the fantasy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Lol, noted, but I feel like it's being over-hyped. It's just a headless 13 second belly play of her squeezing her belly a little, lifting it, dropping it, squeezing it slightly then jiggling it softly. It may be over hyped to the whole "asking for consent thing," but honestly, the vid is still a very intimate part of your relationship that she's sharing with you, and whether or not guys feel that's important, women do. Would you be okay with your girlfriend posting a photo or a vid of you on an internet site that you meant to be for her eyes only without telling you first and seeing if you'd be okay with it? Probably not. That's why you give consideration to the person you're in a relationship with and ask her if you can first. Think with your big head man. Plus, weird things happen online, and as everyone knows, once you post it online, you can't take that back and if caught in the right wind, whatever you post can potentially spread like wildfire. I know I sound like a total mom saying that stuff, but I'm trying to look out for people on this forum, especially when I've been in a position of having an ex share videos without me knowing, or having people steal photos of mine and impersonating me on other sites. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MUSEic Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I'm gonna be happy when this thread moves to the your pictures forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 It may be over hyped to the whole "asking for consent thing," but honestly, the vid is still a very intimate part of your relationship that she's sharing with you, and whether or not guys feel that's important, women do. Would you be okay with your girlfriend posting a photo or a vid of you on an internet site that you meant to be for her eyes only without telling you first and seeing if you'd be okay with it? Probably not. That's why you give consideration to the person you're in a relationship with and ask her if you can first. Think with your big head man. Plus, weird things happen online, and as everyone knows, once you post it online, you can't take that back and if caught in the right wind, whatever you post can potentially spread like wildfire. I know I sound like a total mom saying that stuff, but I'm trying to look out for people on this forum, especially when I've been in a position of having an ex share videos without me knowing, or having people steal photos of mine and impersonating me on other sites. Lol, I appreciate the concern, Ayumi. But knowing her as well as anyone knows their own SO, I'm sure she wouldn't give a shit as it doesn't show her identity. I'll ask before hand, anyways, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MUSEic Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Um, wow. That's a pretty incredible story if it's true. Now waiting for this to happen to me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I don't think anyone should try to seek out a position where they are cheating on their significant other with another woman when the significant other is clearly enjoying gaining weight as well. =/ I feel sorry for the guy's girlfriend and wonder why OP can't talk with his girlfriend, instead of having to have a side relationship with this other girl, when she's probably open minded to explore more of his fetish and perhaps this community. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 Deleted a couple posts. I don't feel like getting berated because I don't want to tell my girlfriend that I found out that myself and a friend of mine had a commonality on a fetish site, despite zero intimate contact in the several times we've hung out together, because just maybe she'd become paranoid given the context. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Realistically, would you blame your girlfriend for getting paranoid? Intimate contact is feeding, especially when it's a sexual interest of yours. The way you felt guilty about it too said you know it's more than you let on as well because if wasn't intimate, you'd have no problem talking about it with your girlfriend. Look, I'm all for having your cake and eating it too, as I've been in a similar spot. But my boyfriend, at the time, knew about it. We broke up not because of what was going on but because our interests were not compatible. But if you can't be honest with your girlfriend about everything, you should re-think what you're doing and why you're willing to risk the trust you have with your girlfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 Realistically, would you blame your girlfriend for getting paranoid? Intimate contact is feeding, especially when it's a sexual interest of yours. The way you felt guilty about it too said you know it's more than you let on as well because if wasn't intimate, you'd have no problem talking about it with your girlfriend. Look, I'm all for having your cake and eating it too, as I've been in a similar spot. But my boyfriend, at the time, knew about it. We broke up not because of what was going on but because our interests were not compatible. But if you can't be honest with your girlfriend about everything, you should re-think what you're doing and why you're willing to risk the trust you have with your girlfriend. Lol, of course I wouldn't blame her for being paranoid, the circumstances look absolutely awful from her end. But the truth is I've never done anything that's made me erect around this girl and I don't see her as more than a friend who happens to be undergoing something I'm very curious to see. And, it's hard to explain that feeder/feedee stuff has more subtle aspects than just making themselves horny. She wants to be fat because she'll be more comfortable in her body, much like how a transvestite isn't constantly horny when portraying themselves as the opposite gender. I get similar satisfaction from helping her gain weight, but it's not completely sexual, it's just a comfortable impulse. Yes, I have fed her, we tried it out a few times for her benefit and my morbid curiosity. Being faced with an astronomically low probability of a young, attractive friend of mine living down the street from me and completely understanding the largest part of who I am, which I've had to hide from society all my life and some pretty undocumented rules on whether yelling at a girl to eat a lot is cheating, I took advantage of it. My life was a textbook-example of a weight gain fantasy. To be honest, it wasn't really either of our cups of tea because neither of us were horny and I wasn't willing to escalate to that point. (Note: Having been with my gaining GF, you really don't get off on feeding and weight gain too much when you're not horny, it causes some guilt during the day over their health, really.) So, since then we've just been hanging out as friends do, getting lunch while she orders a fuckton and occasionally chatting about her gaining. I'm not going to stop being friends with her. While my girlfriend does get off on fat talk and gaining because it's risque, and she likes how soft and fun her body is to play with, she doesn't have a fetish for it. Sorry everyone, but she doesn't give many shits about what her weight is regardless. She just loves me, she loves eating and she doesn't have body issues. Meeting someone else with a true weight gain fetish after never being able to talk to anyone about that huge part of you your entire life is amazing relieving. It's not about whether or not my girlfriend could explore more of the community and my sexuality. She just isn't wired to understand how a feeder/feedee actually thinks and feels. Just like how, while you gain for your boyfriend, you don't understand what it's like to have the same impulses and stimuli responses he does. Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm platonic friends with someone I met on a fat fetish site? Is that really the best way to go? It's a pretty complex and rare circumstance that I don't necessarily think falls under the blanket statement "honesty is the best policy." I usually wouldn't write a novel trying to defend myself from being accused of cheating (and all the imagery that's associated with that word), but I have a lot of respect for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 I completely get where you're coming from. I definitely do. I have nothing against people enjoying their, fetishes and having someone to enjoy that with! I don't think you need to tell your girlfriend where you met this friend of yours exactly, but you should be open and honest with her that you met a female friend who is into the whole feederism thing and you guys talk about it and share stories you guys find online, or something along those lines. Because, lets face it, if she were to happen upon the conversations you and your friend have had and this convo on here, her thoughts probably wouldn't be "Oh cool he made a friend that he can talk about and explore a fetish with even if they haven't done anything truly sexual." She, like most women would probably start feeling insecure and perhaps a bit sad that, while she may not be able to truly be as gung ho about the fetish, you are sharing things intimately about yourself with someone other than her. Now perhaps when you talk with your girlfriend she may not give a shit and be all like "cool, thanks for letting me know," but it'll probably make you feel less guilty about your friendship with this girl and it will make her feel valued that you took her feelings into consideration. And perhaps I'm weird, but I'd rather have someone be blunt with me, especially a person I'm in a relationship with. Heck, even with my boyfriend now, we are as open as books with each other. I know he's got people he talks about his fetishes with, and I'm okay with that. He'll even let me know if they talk about something that is a bit more of a sexual topic. He doesn't need to, but he does because while I may not be into his fetishes fully, He's letting me still be part of his life. And you can bet I do the same for him. Plus while feeding might not be her thing, this may spark her in taking more of an active role in indulging your fetish. I know it made me want to use more fat talk in bed, and sometimes I'll tease him by wearing clothes super small to accentuate areas of me that have grown. Its definitely added more to our sex life than I thought it would. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Rofl, are you talking about the text conversation I posted? That was between me and my girlfriend, I'd never say shit like that to my feedee friend. Conversations with feedee are more along the lines of "when did you realize you wanted to be fat?" "About 3 years ago when I was still living with <mutual friend> hahaha, I was bored on deviant art and came across some weird art when I was just browsing, started reading stories with them and they got me excited, but ever since I was a kid I always had a strange reaction to that blueberry girl scene in Willy Wonka, <laughs> is that weird?" I kinda feel like you're mixing up my girlfriend and my friend in some of your responses. Which is understandable, I word vomit pretty hard sometimes. Btw, your relationship with your boyfriend sounds extremely similar mine with my girlfriend. Also, in the context of that text conversation being from my girlfriend, I don't think I need to explain that she is very accommodating and indulgent in my fetish. I will admit, I may have confused the convo you had with your girlfriend to the convo you had with your friend. lol I word vomit too sometimes so it can be hard to keep in line what's what. lol But sounds like you've got a good relationship. I know sometimes I can come off like a mom or something, but a lot of it is from concern for the members on the site plus I've always been that one friend everyone turns to for moral advice so it just kind of bleeds through sometimes. lol But hey, as long as you and your girlfriend are on the same page, you guys do your thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 17, 2014 Author Share Posted June 17, 2014 To clear up why I deleted that post: I wrote it out, then re-read yours and got to this part: the conversations you and your friend have had and this convo on here, Wasn't sure if you meant the one I posted on page 2 or the conversation between you and me discussing the her presence in my life outright. Nonetheless, as much as I'd love to tell my girlfriend everything that goes on in my life, she would get paranoid and jealous regardless of anything and over nothing, in my opinion. Which is completely understandable given the sexual nature of my friend's and my commonality. However, I think that extends to any friendship between people of the opposite sex. They all have the capacity to fuck due to their sexuality, but they don't. I will admit, I may have confused the convo you had with your girlfriend to the convo you had with your friend. lol Also, what conversations are you referring to? I only count the one on page 2. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ittewa Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Hmm. I agree with Ayumi on this. Look, either the feeding thing with your friend is going to stop, or your girlfriend will find out. One or the other. You say she'll get jealous, but don't you think it would be best to tell her on your own terms? You may not view it as sexual, or something to get jealous over, but just the fact that she would view it that way is a reason not to keep it secret. If this is something important to you to the extent that you'll do it without telling her specifically because of her reaction, it doesn't bode well for the relationship on the long term. I know I don't have all the facts, but if you found out your girlfriend was doing something behind your back that would make you jealous, how would you feel? By your own words, I'm assuming it would take a lot more to make you jealous, but you have to view it from her perspective. Rational or not, it's part of her personality, part of who she is. You're ignoring it instead of dealing with and embracing it. I think you're doing her a disservice by keeping this from her. It's very difficult for a couple to survive long term without complete honesty. And likewise, by keeping this from her you're keeping a part of yourself from her. I'm just looking out for you mate. I really think you should tell her, and not just because she will inevitably find out on her own. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayumi_Chan Posted June 17, 2014 Share Posted June 17, 2014 Look, everything aside, overall, either your girlfriend's feelings are important to you or they aren't. That's the bottom line no matter what. If they are important, you should tell your girlfriend. Because it is honestly better to tell her now as opposed to her finding out later. Cause just the fact that you're hiding the friendship from your girlfriend is enough that it would raise flags in her head and would make it hard to believe nothing else is going on if your girlfriend finds out about this other girl on her own. If it's really nothing more than you say it is (casual conversation about feeding,) man up and tell you girlfriend. Because you're risking a lot right now, and are you willing to risk your relationship on a girl you don't really know as well as your girlfriend? Because you're basically saying you value this other girls friendship more than your own relationship at the moment by keeping this other girl under wraps. And regards to the "conversation on here" basically I'm referring to everything you're saying about this friend of yours and what you do with this friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ittewa Posted June 18, 2014 Share Posted June 18, 2014 ^ Pretty much sums up the whole issue :thumbsup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangs15 Posted June 18, 2014 Author Share Posted June 18, 2014 I know I don't have all the facts, but if you found out your girlfriend was doing something behind your back that would make you jealous, how would you feel? If my girlfriend had a deep sexuality where admitting it to the average person would be met with disgust, rumors and branded as "that girl," and then she found someone who understood it completely, I'd prefer not to know as long as they weren't fucking each other, because there would be no way of knowing whether they were getting romantically attached to each other. ("He's just a friend!" :) And that'd drive me crazy. I love how everybody is telling me what I should be doing in my relationship. Oversimplifying the thousands of interactions, subtext, body language, reactions, personalities and circumstances that they haven't experienced. Shit like this is why 90% of online relationship advice is, "just break up with them," and it's why I never judge someone's relationships or decisions. If I told her, she'd probably be okay, and then anxious every time I hung out with my friend. Girls get jealous about that kind of thing all the time. I think I can confidently say a large portion of women would prefer their boyfriends did not have female friends. I'm avoiding rocking a boat, if she finds out on her own she's welcome to read my text history and see that my friend and I have set boundaries and kept things PG. Nonetheless, I think it's a shame that here is yet another place where I can't express myself openly without being scrutinized. No one is perfect. I'm pretty much done posting anything that happens in my life here anymore. Can't wait for the next rebuttal in this hatejerk on me. Might as well have just written got sum other chick 2 thats a feedee, she sucks my dick like it's a bavarian sausage. prolly gained 5 lbs on my jizz alone 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) got her pregnant to speed up the process, gonna abort around 20 weeks and do it all over again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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