Chevalier

Those die-hards, pun intended, hardly develop over time. Gotta work on that pullout game 😉

Your need to troll me is really sad. I'll just hop on ig and spin the algorithm with one nice pic for a way higher success rate of fun once you filter the extremists, nastiness (like your comment is as bad as the vid of a girl who gets paid to be crapped on with several enablers) and broken body images. I'm just glad I find different people enjoying themselves when I scroll pic by pic in search, or some improved vids instead of going down whatever bs is recommended like suggested reels. Wish you would've explained what is worth sponsoring something so heavily monetized that doesn't care about me in the slightest. But nah, this site is gonna get worse with censorship as well. Happy landings as you'll enjoy the spam.

Short answer: Almost everything popular that you've once loved is watered down to appeal to the filthy casual that will spend more out of desperation. I need mah gains/Fear Of Missing Out is king. Long answer: Helps to start treating it like a business in the long term. Abandon ship for who doesn't have their stuff together, or won't even try. On a positive note, there are more tells these days with the vast supply, so you can find incompatible behavior much faster given less inhibitions. Craziest part of all this is I'm noticing a more attractive air when I don't even want it any more. Maybe because there's a thin line in finding something to believe in and being oversold something, and I'm just sensing survival sex or clout better than trying to salvage too many bad situations. I also think of a joke a comedian made that there are no retirement parties here. People just get out of the game with no notice more often than not, and you begin anew. It really isn't "work" when stress tests fail. Heck, modifications as life happens are foreign to some as well. If I see a type of roleplay or stimulation, maybe I'll comment but I do like my secrets too, especially if someone cannot communicate well or gets entitled with weight loss/gain. It isn't our responsibility to continuously babysit for healthy interaction or what is due (by word or what is previously given) as it's way too sluggish. I'm just glad I got too old for the habit to stay and play for the types who intentionally (by willpower) misunderstand me, and thankful when I don't have to dig for answers.

You have talent as a writer. I just simply entertain when I have a chance, and learned to enjoy brevity as I got older, especially upon scaling attractions which won't last forever 🎆. Gushing out and trying to overpursue doesn't sell anywhere as well as trying to ping for a subtle response and doing other stuff as months pass by, like a multitasking fishing 🎣. Hope you remember me 🙂.

You still haven't told him? Damn, why bother at this point? I did suggest to be subtle about it. It's your in/decision to make, though I am noting how common it is not to get in this trap myself and let "boyfriend" do the heavy lifting.

Really, a trigger warning? People are too brittle these days for me to really bother much as mental health is cried as an excuse every day. Let alone with a good enough connection, anything can be enjoyable, especially with how it's cool now to be remote, especially with those who get crazy about the vaccine. Chemistry helps more than mechanics honestly, especially when there are so many bad actors who double dip, cheat, or suddenly get too depressed to try. I say this because I appreciate good offers and exclusive invites over how much some cheapen themselves by posting anything online, or have no idea on how to have a moment for a private action. It helps safeguard from breaches of trust. Based on what you said, I buy or sell based on what's readily available and try to toss out what I find to be a crutch to be taken advantage of by my unwitting overreliance, especially in this day when stuff can be leaked. Bad actors will complain you are discriminating if they don't meet your preference (though they do the same my way or the highway bs 9 times outta 10), or false accusations can be made (which I experienced on this site too) because harassment has become fluid and can change when it benefits by a book to be made or such. TL:DR I just see what lanes a woman gives me open and negotiate for something sustainable. These lanes are abstract as I can pick up on what she wants and see if there is mutual ground to enjoy.

Ask if he likes taking pictures of you and gradually ease him while discerning those parasocial relationships. I don't know if you had the talk about what counts as cheating. Though your question does give me closure on why so many models can ghost, yeah boyfriend becoming third wheel won't be happy, but apparently his money doesn't cut it so I dial down on things.

She probably doesn't even remember you honestly. It's like teen Titans finale with beast boy stuck in the past and Terra wants to forget he ever existed, sad but truth in television that some have too much baggage (her past betrayal/atonement and write-off) and won't really give much for closure. I tried sending a subtle note (hi, this topic reminded me of you, remember me?) and just see the effort in what's returned if at all.

Can always analyze tastes and cravings or the effects it has on your body too. Memory is fun too, caroling for some candy day somebody has you covered for lol a nice candy man who makes the world taste good 🤠.

It's as easy as having an off switch and passively setting up events like Halloween candy stuffing, thanksgiving is self explanatory, Christmas/holiday cheer, and egg nog for me years. If you're blatantly looking for gains like a bodybuilder, you'll be disappointed or have it become that obsession that often looks bad in the media. Then there's the other aspect to intercept when she sees you like a meal ticket and funnels down expenses and quality time to those who do far less than her Superman. Heck I notice myself reconnecting and retooling relationships with whatever women ghost out when they get hungry enough to want to engage me, and then I have to treat the encounter like a short term lease (ie boundaries and not overreach) before too much is owed. The problem is that social media and forums are fake and everybody got an excuse for a sob story, get easily offended (you can't win when stories conflict) or no show (I didn't spend all this just to fizzle out with no closure). The trick is just knowing who's worth cleaning up after renegotiating a breach, managing your time so you're not codependent on her bs (eat and run/dine 'n dash are the worst), and even seeing a social power through food so it's normal (like rubbing a woman's feet or if she lets you engage her weight/mature age) over some closeted fetish that ignores the emotional connection (if she eats for everyone, what does she do to make you special)/icebreakers (or a way to address each other) that attraction can be a catalyst for.

I'd say eventually become desensitized/lose patience in the long term. Think of it like the future is female. I graduated college in 2009 and people still promoting that over the past 12 years. What happened for no upward mobility? Same with race for the cure, like we're going in circles, or my responsibility to care. How am I supposed to work with this? Kinda reminds me of that Kaiji speech by Tonegawa, what are people doing with their lives? Same with the fighting you had to experienced for that gay confirmation bias with DaVinci. I've gotten banned because certain protected groups need to censor, but this is what some people need to make the highlight of their lives, so I calmly lost the ability to tolerate them,

Thanks for not attacking me but between cancel culture, metoo and just an overall lack of communication given brainwashing narratives (believe all women or do this or else you're transphobic), I feel this solution can only be done in a trial of fire to lose a lot of tolerance and unlearn from seeing when you are misled by these factors you think willpower can surpass. Though long term I think you're correct given so many things can age poorly, and it becomes easier to improve yourself when someone is laying in a pool of their bs that became too big not to see.

Why not? Men are conditioned to be subservient and censor themselves to women while paying them for the so-called blessing. Then there's the one-upsmanship that ranges from protecting bad actors to supporting diminishing returns, especially on social media to gain anything (pounds, followers, money and Brazilian butt lifts) but lifelong friends and meaningful intimacy. Politically incorrect observations help a lot. Some convince themselves they're less attractive but topic creator feels it's not as locked in at a younger age. I do experience the opposite when they politicize their weight daily to overcompensate for lack of life experience/maintenance skills to preserve a union. However, I understand the malleability to possibly change viewpoints at a younger age rather than be stuck in their ways. But at the opposite end of the spectrum I'm aware of women getting too old to have inhibitions, and that can be sloppy as well. Like how are women in their 40s and 50s still broke or wishing they were younger? Just be careful while having fun and stop paying when (usually chronic sob) stories don't add up.

Just be subtle and role play if you catch her snacking/overeating on something. People tend to blow this out of proportion, but with social media trying to normalize anything these days, there's less pressure if you're not taking things to 11.