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Her New Years resolution is to lose 25kg... which would take her back down to 85kg. Obviously I wasn't the happiest to hear this, not that I told her... I decided to wait and see whether she'll actually go through with it. How has it gone so far? Well, this morning the scale read 113.3kg....

125kg!!! I would very impressed if she reached that by then... I can't even imagine that. Let's hope you're correct again! To be honest, I don't know how much I'd like. She just keeps getting heavier and heavier and I'm still enjoying it and she keeps accepting it so as long as that continues I'd be happy. I wouldn't want it to get so high that it starts affecting her lifestyle but other than that I don't really have too many limits in mind!

I have no idea how far she could go honestly. Every time she does plateau for a while, the upward trend always seems to come back with a vengeance.. Take the last few months - no change at all for 3 months and then almost 5 new kg in less than half that time! The rate of gain does seem to be increasing also... She's put on 12kg alone this year! Crazy to think she's put on 35kg in total... Or, almost half her initial starting weight of 75kg! So, I don't know... I guess it's just a question of how large her mindset will let her body get. I'll just enjoy the ride!

Another sporadic update.. Last report was 106kg in July and the resumption of the gym membership. This led to a bit of a plateau for the following few months, where she pretty much maintained the same weight. However, mid-October she started a new job, a typical office job involving a lot of sitting and typing at a computer, often running late. Whilst not that different from her previous jobs, it has seemed to have had a positive impact on her waistline - over the month and a half since she started she has now gone up to 110.8kg! Looking bigger than ever, though it seems she's too busy to do much about it! We are about to go on a week long holiday where I am hoping she will overindulge further, which will be followed by Christmas and New Years... Here's hoping for many more kgs to come! Any predictions?

That would be amazing! But I'm not holding my breath... Still I'll take what I get! I suppose I should be surprised it's taken 2.5 years and 4 pages of comments for that question to be asked lol. I'm not sure I'm comfortable doing that at this stage... We will see what the future brings!

106kg! Unfortunately however this number led to the resumption of the gym membership... Although she has only been once in the last week. So we will see how successful that is!

Update, for those interested... Her workload with her job, and her study, has really picked up the last few months. So much so that she never finds time to go to the gym - her membership lapsed in that time and she didn't bother renewing it. Eating habits have slipped also - home cooked meals are becoming less and less frequent, replaced by trips to burger joints and the fish and chip shop. The majority of her time is spent behind a desk working or studying. All this has had a positive effect on the scale - she now weighs in at a plump 104.8kg. She does have reservations about her weight still, but she has stated that she is just too busy at the moment to do anything about it. And obviously I'm not complaining. Long may it continue!

We live in the Southern Hemisphere, so summer is just ending for us now.... 10kg in a couple days seems unrealistic! But by the end of winter.... We shall see!

Self image, I think... Mainly things like how far her belly hangs over or how tight some clothes have become. If I'm not there to reassure her then her bad thoughts can take control... Hmmm nope, don't recognise those symptoms... Except maybe getting angry while hungry, or hangry, but then we both are susceptible to that! So I think we're safe, for now!

Actually, we do live together now - we moved in at the end of last year. And since then alone she's put on 5kg. So it is working quite well. But then my job often has long hours and overnight trips so that's when some of the bad thoughts enter her mind. And for sure, I've cooled down a lot on discouraging exercise, - although I don't actively encourage her either! She's certainly no runner, her favourite thing to do is jump on the bike at the gym when she does go, but that never lasts long. The aims I guess are just dreams of mine. Obviously I won't complain if she reaches them, but at the moment they're just ideas of what could maybe one day. I don't think she's gone any major health issues... She just really hates exercise and really loves her food. Plus her family are all quite large too so it's in her genes. I like to think she's just destined to be a fat girl and is slowly but surely acheiving her potential. But yeah, whenever she goes to the doctor, they do give the usual losing weight speech, but they've never actually found anything actually wrong with her. Nevertheless, I will be careful! For now I'll just try to hold her at 100kg..

Honestly, I don't know exactly. For example, immobility is a massive turn off, I would never want her to get near that big, but then I don't think she ever would. I don't want her so big that she can't do things like walks or activities, so if her weight ever started impacting on that, I guess that'd be the point. I appreciate the comments from you and @mercury, but honestly I'm not sure that's what's needed. We have had many conversations on the topic, and I have explicitly stated I prefer her as she is now compared to when we met - we even talked about it just last night. I think @scissortooth has got the situation spot on. I have already done some of your suggestions - like the eye candy and compliments to her bigger boobs and butt - but I may need to try the lingerie and perhaps reiterating that bigger is better too. However like you say, I definitely don't want to make too big a deal out of it... and I definitely don't want her feeling like it's the be all and end all of the relationship. Past boyfriends have made her feel pretty crap about her body when she was a lot skinnier, so I'm just trying to show her just how much I like her body now with thesr improvements. And to be fair, it kind of works - she always says she sees the positives when she's with me, and even likes the way she looks... It's when she's alone that some of the bad thoughts begin to return. But thanks for the input all - it is appreciated! I know, right? Looking at it that way, I'm pretty amazed... Considering two years ago I just wanted her to be 80kg, and now she's tipping the scales over 100.... It's been a great journey, and I'm excited to see where it goes next! Perhaps I should aim for 250lb... Whatever that works out as in kg... Or on the other hand, maybe I should focus on consolidation and improving her self image... Who knows!

So, there has been a bit of consolidation over the last couple weeks. Eventually she did start to admit that being above 100kg was a worry to her, particularly because she didn't want to get "too big for me"... I think she still doesn't get exactly the way I feel, no matter how much I tell her I love her body! Everything is so big... Her boobs have gone up three cup sizes, along with her dress size... Her arms and legs are getting so thick and meaty, and her belly seems to expand and overhang more day by day... She is looking amazing! She did attempt a few gym sessions... But due to a lack of dedication and the rather lax diet we have maintained it hasn't achieved much. In fact, this morning she weighed in at 101.8kg, something I'm very happy with! Its weird now though, I no longer have a long term goal weight for her, apart from hopefully remaining above 100kg... Any suggestions? Obviously there is a point where it would be too big, for both me and her, so at the moment I'm kinda just enjoying the show and hopefully see where it goes!

At long last, it finally happened. This morning, she weighed in at 100kg. She took it quite well - I think due to the fact she'd been hovering between 98-99kg for the last 3 months or so at least. Will have to wait and see what happens over the next few weeks though.... I hope to keep her above that magic number!

Bit of a long shot.... Years and years ago, there was a girl who posted videos to YouTube under the name LAMRON (maybe around 2008ish?). She was the first ever BBW I stumbled upon whilst searching YouTube as a teenager, and sort of led me to the discovery of the FA community as a whole. However, she ended up being one of those YouTube channels that just disappeared without any warning. Does anyone remember her / know what happened to her / have her videos? I'd love to find out...

I wouldn't speak too soon.... since coming back from holiday she's stabilised back down at 98ish kg.... so close but yet so far!