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I've been talking to a girl and we are interested in possibly starting an online feeder feedee relationship, and I am curious what I should expect out of this. I've definitely never done it this way before so I don't really know how to go about it. I figure a lot has to depend on just the flow between the two of us, but do any of you have tips, experiences, warnings, etc you'd be willing to share. Thanks in advance!

This a great topic and something I'm glad someone else brought up. I have always felt bad for liking the idea of my SO gaining weight and getting fat, but I honestly don't think I would ever have the heart to actively promote this lifestyle. I study kinesiology in college so I am well aware of all the detriments that the excess amount of weight can cause on someone. I like what @An Optimist said when it feels like its part habits and learning it because when I first started out here I only liked chubby chicks but over the years I have grown more to accept larger women as something I find appealing. So, just by putting ourselves in a community that accepts and desires it I feel naturally changes our own preferences. I feel that the desire also stems from a more primal biological stand point because of course having extra weight, to a degree, signals that your well feed and would not struggle to raise a child. Of course that only works towards women and is completely a more subconscious drive at this point in human evolution. Overall, though i still wouldn't say it stems from a hatred towards women or men or that it is because I am a sick person. Interestingly enough I feel like my initial fetish actually stemmed from my desire to be healthy and not overweight at all; almost creating a subconcious desire to experience any type of fatness through someone else, but I digress. I guess at the end of the day who really knows why we all have this preference, and I'm certain plenty of us found our ways here for different reasons.

Always nice to see other people from California on here; anyways welcome to curvage hopefully you'll enjoy all the community has to offer!

Genetics does have a lot to do with how and where the body stores fat, but not all of it. You are more likely to gain visceral fat by gaining a lot of weight quickly, and with a very high fat diet supplemented with a ton of quick digesting sugars. Subcutaneous fat is more likely to be gained if you have a slower weight gain with a more rounded diet (healthy fats, long-chain starches, etc.) I would in no way say I am an expert on these things, but that is the general gist given by my teachers here in college.

Nice start!

Great way to start it back up!

Very nice update!

Still waiting for this to continue, great so far!

I think you will all enjoy this video

one of the best pieces on here!

Unfortunately, Serfontein where you live sounds very similar to where I live because a majority of the people here are very health conscious.

You guys give great advice thanks!

Thanks, there are a lot of things I have learned to not give a shit about, and I guess this will have to become one of them eventually.

I feel like if I acknowledge my desire to be with a curvier woman to my friend base I would be ridiculed. (Sophomore in college btw.) I don't know how I can just go and pursue larger women without being judged by my friends, and it sucks.(Save the you need better friends stuff please.) Has anyone else gone through this that can give out some pointers? Like how to make the people around accept and understand it more easily, or just how to do it with out really making it knowledge for other people? Thanks I'd appreciate it!

Damn good story, can't wait for more!