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The problem I see though is even if the diet works and she loses some weight will it actually make her happy. Or is she always going to think "oh man I need to lose just 20 more pounds". The problem might not be the weight but how she sees herself. She could be anorexic and still think she was fat and unattractive. Sometimes you just can't help people that feel that way. You have to stop and think do you really want to be with someone that is always so negative. Can you imagine being with her for the next 5 years having to listen the awful things she says about herself. You mentioned that when you tell her that she's beautiful she takes it as calling her fat because you like fat. That's on her for thinking that not you. Don't feel bad that she takes your words and turns them around like that. Also if she continues to gain weight is she going to start blaming you? I've seen girls blame the weight on their bfs because it's simpler then admitting they did it themselves. Would you be able to handle it if she went around telling her friends and family that you like fat girls so your the one fattening her up. (not saying she would just a possibility)

I never said he wasn't fulfilling my needs. This is based on making money doing it nothing else. I've had this conversation with my husband. It would just be a job. Most likely I won't end up doing it. I'm looking into signing up for cosmetology school in the next month anyway so I wouldn't have the time.

I call my husband chunky monkey all the time. He makes a face but you wouldn't see him telling all of fb that I called him fat. Also how did he "force" her to gain weight. Unless he tied her up and shoved cake down her throat then she did it on her own.

We talked about it last night and he's not happy about the idea. I said that if it made him more comfortable I'd only respond to them if he's not home. I'm thinking about writing like a rule book for what I won't do. Like if he doesn't want me talking about something specific or anything like that. I told him I wanted to try it for a month and if I don't make much money I'd quit.

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. He knows I'd never cheat on him. I currently don't have a job. I've always been rather good at sexting. I'm a writer and in high school I took a creative writing class were the teacher allowed us to write about anything. I never gave her a story with full on porn but it was rather steamy. She said I was very detailed when it came to certain...scenes . I'm thinking about joining a website that pays you to text people(I'd also text woman since I'm kind of bi). I also thought about sending pictures but they wouldn't include my face, just my body. Would you be ok with your wife doing something like that or would you throw a fit and say you didn't want her to do it? I've brought up videoing us having sex before and he got upset. I saw someone on here mention the site http://extralunchmoney.com and I thought about using it.

My husband and I have both gained around 60 pounds in the 3 years we have been together. I gained most of mine at the beginning though. Wasn't on purpose just happened that way. We've talked about it before and he doesn't want me weighing any less than 170(I'm 5"4) and I don't want him less than 190(he's 5"7). Neither of us are really attracted to skinny people. Although oddly for both of us if they dress alternative like goth or something we both don't mind them skinny.

Hi I'm new to everything here. In the past I've thought bad about myself and how I look. But after being with my husband the past 3 years I'v grown to love myself. Both my hubby and I are chunky(me more then him). He's 22 and I'm almost 21. We've both gained about 60 pounds since we first got together. I've been trying to find others that are ok with there bodies but haven't had any luck. Especially where we live in a small southern town. I do admit I'd like to lose some weight but if I stay the same I'm just as happy. Looking forward to talking to lots of different people.