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Hello All, I have a new SO and she's aware I like "chubby girls" which she is. But that is the extent of her knowledge. I want to regularly feed her in the future, but I want to ease her into it. Just some ice cream or popcorn while watching a movie to start. How do I make a casual feeding into something more intimate? Anyone who has had positive feeding experiences please share. What does it for you? What made you realize you were into it? I don't necessarily mean the end result of weight gain/stuffing.

She gained mostly in her thighs/butt. Once her belly became noticable she started really worrying. At this point she's lost 3-4 pounds, small enough to be error. I'm happy for her though. It's a bit of a turnoff for me but work has kept us both busy as of late either way.

Forgot to check back, she reached 190 a month ago and decided enough is enough. She started exercising regularly. Her idea of excersize is using an stationary bike for 20 minutes. She looks like she's nearing 195 as she is still growing. She decides exercising is an excuse to allow herself desert sometimes. Can't tell if it's ignorance on the weight loss process or she still wants an excuse to eat despite the growing issue(ba-dum). Im not able to correct her at every moment in her day. I'll just continue to support her emotionally. Main issue is she doesn't "feel sexy being large" so I may try linking her to some curvage threads where overweight women are praised for their looks. Maybe she can gain some perspective, you don't have to be hollywood skinny to be considered attractive.

Anything on Instagram would be great actually, seeing other people being content with their weight would really help!

Hello all, I have a gf I have been living with for over 2 years, it's been excellent. Since I met her she has unintentionally gone from 130 - 180. Currently her weight gain is speeding up due to quarantine and her hunger increasing.You can imagine I'm totally fine with it, I think she's gorgeous and way out of my league. However she really hates being overweight, it reminds her of how fat her family is, and she thinks it looks ugly. Its killing her self esteem, she avoids photos as much as possible. She knows what I'm into and doesn't mind it, (she also loves how large her butt is). Her genes and lifestyle will cause her to keep blimping, if not immediately then in the future. I need some advice to help her regain her confidence and come to terms with her body. I tell her she's attractive and all as much as I can to no avail. She plans on losing weight and I intend to help her, but it's almost guaranteed to be temporary, and she will fall into a self hate cycle. Thoughts?