maxking400

I'm currently in the same boat as you, although a bit differently. We were together back in highschool but when we reunited years later, she pack the pounds. It would be long distance but we were together and she was open to gaining with 300 pounds being the limit. But with her being too open worry me because of health reason and that one day she might want to go over 300. Her bipolar noticeably got in the way but how she felt about it was unknown to me Sadly at the start of the year, cause of the long distance, we broke up. We still talk and at this time she wanted to be skinny again so she can do modeling again ,kept calling herself "fat and ugly" (for a bit more info, her ex that she was friends with and still had feeling was going with someone much skinner along with what might soon to be her newest ex). Right now, we are secretly dating and awhile ago when I got my new phone, I looked round her gallery for a wallpaper (context she had a phone with a bad camera while we dated) I discover a picture showing off her belly with "thick girls matter too" which bring my curiosity to look back more and was in notable conflict of loving and disliking her body, but had shared of some plus-size and BBW post, even a SSBBW model. I'm worry about bring this up to her, and when she kept sharing skinny model and clearly comparing herself to them, I flop and say "I think the bigger you is more sexier" in which she hang up, I try explaining that she doesn't need to be skinny to be a model, that I don't want to see her keep putting herself down. In which she talk about family abuse and bully, that she going to keep putting herself down. A whole lot and more to try to deal with, becoming more a conflict of health and giving her confident about her body. Hopefully you and your girl are doing a whole lot better.