I don't have any stories, but I would say that it seems
like she has embraced the idea of that it isn't a problem
for you if she happens to gain any weight.
This signals to me that see is comfortable being with
you and that she now is getting laid back about eating more
and putting on weight, it also sounds like she is trying
to engage you in the conversation about her new eating
habits, I don't know if she likes to be teased but it sounds
likes she likes eating and teasing you about how much
more she seems to be eating now.
And maybe the fact that you were so cool about it at
first and just laid it all out for her without any sort of
pressure or guilt over that she has to gain weight
may have contributed to the fact that she just tried
it out a little bit and then some more.
Maybe she has a latent desire within herself that
she didn't even knew about until you brought up the
topic and then it was all like "Hey is this a thing".
Most people that aren't in involved/engaged in this
preference have only had the medias picture of that
you should stay thin thin thin.
It could backlash if it becomes to much out of
the norm, but as long as you just treat her like
usual and show her that you love her either thin,
fat or something in between then I don't see
any problem occurring that will be too much for you
two to be together (at least problems related
to weight issues and such)
I'f I'd have too guess I'd say that she wasn't sure
about it at first but the when you gave her the
"signal" that it was ok then she just started
to find it appealing herself (even if she's embarresed
about admitting it herself and instead
is giving you these little subtle messages about that
she now actually don't mind if she's gaining weight),
Maybe you could try to play along with her as
long as you're sure abou that she won't be offended
if you start making comments about her weight gain.
Otherwise you seem too have handled it all just fine.
Open cards are always the best, she would
have found out about it sooner or later anyway.
I wish you the best of luck with this girl and hope that
it works out in your favour, but I don't that it will be
necessary in this case.
You made your own luck by telling it to her
straight, don't hesitate to give us some updates if things
things don't "work out" or for that matter if they
do "work out".
I hope that it wasn't to much text but I just
got into it I suppose.
Take care man.
