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Number21 replied to Onlybbwplease's topic in Relationships
You don't need to kill/close the thread. I know it's tough right now, but it's just part of life (and marriage's) ups and downs. Something will click again and you'll get back on your feet, even though your wife may be a little smaller. Ultimately, even though it's hard, we need to remember to be there for our partners and help them in their endeavors to be healthy, happy, and comfortable. Even when we so badly want them to be curvaceous queens. I totally get where you are right now. You need to remember the why. The why you got married. The why you chose your wife. I doubt any of those reasons are because she was or was going to get fat. Life will turn up again, and the funny thing about weight is it goes up and down gradually over our whole lives. You may get a smaller wife for a few years but she may end up even bigger 5 years From now. We all feel for you, and just know that your feelings are valid. Feel free to vent, rant, rage, whatever you need to do to get some kind of catharsis. At the end of the day, what will matter is you go to the arms of a loving wife who I'm sure will still try to please you and cater to you, if you open up about your feelings and make your position known with trust and love. -
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Was just thinking about this story yesterday, and wouldn't you know, another chapter dropped! Absolutely incredible, can't wait for more.
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It's the peaks and valleys of a relationship. I totally understand the eggshells of bringing it up, especially if she's already disinterested. The best advice I have is this: have a frank and open conversation about the lack of interest and the stressors in her life. I know it goes without saying, but don't make the focus her weight; but rather if there is anything you can do to alleviate her stress or to enrich her time in a way that would be beneficial to her. Taking the kids so she can have some me time, making her favorite meal, getting her retail therapy, a serious massage; you know the drill. It's so easy to say these things, but much harder to do, so please understand that YOU will know more about what might help her situation. We're just a bunch of people on the internet, so this advice is maybe not very helpful. I think as long as you approach her from a place of compassion and love, it will be reciprocated down the line. I feel for you! I hope that some of this was helpful!
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This was incredible. Loved both this and the other story you posted; any chance we could get a continuation for either of these? I thought they were fantastic premises.
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You guys have got to keep us updated, this is great!
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It's back! Can't wait to see more.
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Eight plus years of being a bbw, what's been your favorite part in all that time so far?
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Is there anything in particular she wants to grow, or just excited to be on this journey with you?
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This story has us waiting in anticipation, it's great!
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This is great!
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This is fantastic!
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350 is ambitious! What made you want to gain that much? Great start!
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She must be eating like crazy. Does she get stuff for you on purpose?