ayotechn0logy

@1789 First I wanted to say nice gain, you look great! So just a couple of questions. 1. What do you like about gaining and being fat now? 2. Is there anything you miss about being thinner?

Okay so me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year and a half. Nine of the months we were able to see each other every weekend. The last 10 however, she has lived in an area three hours away so we only see each other once a month. Sometimes when I am not with her I want to date other people, when I am with her though I am completely happy and only want to be with her. I feel like the only reason I am feeling these feelings is because we can't/don't see each other very often. We are both a little over a year away from graduating and have plans to live near each other once we graduate. Is it normal to feel this way in this situation? Any advice?

Well I talked to her about it and she told me that it was due to her simply being lazy and then she jokingly mentioned saying she wants to get lippo after she is done with school when she can afford it. So I guess at this point I'll just keep things at status quot and if she decides herself she is ready to lose some weight I will give her all of my support.

Okay so to start off I am a long time "lurker" on this site and I do happen to like thicker, curvy women which my gf happens to be (for privacy reasons I won't be talking about her weight or name at all). She knows that I have these preferences but also sometimes mentions that she wants to lose some weight. When she says this I tell her that I think she is beautiful the way she is and I will always be willing to support her no matter what she wants as long as it doesn't damage her health or happiness. She does seem to be happy though even though she has not lost any weight and doesn't seem to do anything to try to lose weight. The other reason could be is that she is only keeping it on to make me happy. I'm worried that if that is the reason then am I at fault for not letting her become truly happy due to what I find attractive and if so should I encourage her to lose weight so she will be happy? Also if it is the laziness factor should I still encourage her to lose? Any opinions and thoughts would be appreciated. Also we have been together for over a year.