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I live in a small town and was on some social dating websites some time ago, thought I'd hit the lottery, as I found a girl on them I recognized from Curvage. Completely by chance that I noticed her. I sent her a message, didnt here anything, but noticed she instantly posted on here saying she was single and looking. This was 5 years ago now. I just got outta a relationship with someone else, hopped back on the social dating websites, found this same girl from Curvage on there yet again. Checked her out, she hasnt posted on here since 5 years ago. Long story short, any experience in finding people in real life off of curvage? Let alone how to go about messaging anything about curvage
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So I've been into this for a few years but only started joining online spaces and buying clips and stuff fairly recently. A few days ago I deleted my account on here because I ended up spending so much time on here that I forgot to write an assignment for this summer course I'm taking for college. I didn't want this to ruin my life. But I also don't want to try and resist my kinks and stuff. What do I do? How do I strike the balance?
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Hi! Iโm very close to becoming completely immobile. It scares me a little, but exciting at the same time. I have a lot of help at home too. ๐ Does anyone know someone who is immobile or maybe happens to also be immobile? Iโm looking for any tips or tricks. If itโs too personal, feel free to message me also. Thank you!
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I also shared this in the โrelationshipsโ forum but this one seems more active and honestly I think the topic is fitting here too. I hope Iโm not breaking any rules! I wonโt take too long to tell my story, but for some reason or another felt I needed to vocalize this because I donโt personally know any other belly-positive people in my life. Not going to lie, it may get a little steamy ๐ฅต (YES THERE ARE SEX STORIES) When I met my wife in 2012, she was tall (my height 5โ 10โ) and slender, with great natural curves. Maybe 150 lbs. She was 24 and I was 22. I was immediately crazily attracted to her when I met her...I was already into fat women by that time in my life, and she was nowhere near that...but she had (like I said) fantastic curves and an overall very sexy womanly body. Sheโs always been beautiful in the face as well. To add to it all, her personality and intelligence blew me away and I fell in love hard. Fast forward 4 years later- we have a baby boy (I love my family) and of course she put on some weight. She had already gone up to probably 165 or so by the time she got pregnant. She is a total foodee and an amazing cook, with a love for restaurants ๐คทโโ๏ธ. She got up to 190 at full pregnancy, and she was beautiful...but we didnโt often have sex anymore because of one reason or another. Physically, even at 190 with pregnancy, her legs and arms were still slender, and mostly her belly hardened and her breasts got bigger. After the baby, as most women do, she had trouble shedding the weight. She wasnโt actively trying (she eats A LOT) and she has an office job so it just naturally stayed- her stomach being a little saggy. I think she was around 175. Fast forward through 5 years of large portion meals, constant snacking, and decadent dining she is now around (I think) 235 lbs ๐ฆ and she is SUCH a goddess. She has always had large D breasts, a big bubble butt, and a jiggly tummy. NOW she has a MASSIVE butt that has a hard time fitting into most pants, big round double belly that protrudes further than her breasts, and of course her breasts have gone up three sizes. Her face, arms, and thighs are definitely much fatter. Whatโs even more interesting is just how THICK she is. She just FEELS HEAVY AF. Sometimes when she sits on me to be cute she almost takes me breath out. None of her clothes fit her anymore...and every day life has been a mixture of her wearing old stuff anyway and absolutely spilling out of it, or wearing baggier stuff like pajamas and large dresses. She complains about both and how she doesnโt look good in clothes anymore. OK, I have to pause here to talk about my fetish. I personally donโt like that word because (to me) it kind of demonizes it- BUT to be blunt, I have gone gaga over fat women since I was 16 or so. Iโve dated many girls/women before meeting my wife and always was drawn to curvy types but never found a really large girl. Meanwhile, in my darkest fantasies, I dream of being with a 300 lb+ woman all the time. Thinking of 400 lb or 500 lb even gets me ๐ฅต I donโt think I have to explain to anyone here the appeal. Fat women are just downright sexy. So, as you can imagine...her massive weight gain has made me go even crazier for her. In some relationships the sex life dwindles after 8 years of marriage. In ours...it has only gotten SO MUCH BETTER. I am constantly turned on by her throughout the days...just seeing how she jiggles when she walks...how tight all her clothes are....how her belly sits on the kitchen counter when she cooks. She eats huge portion meals and usually goes back for seconds...then always has a stash of chocolates or cookies for dessert. This has ramped up even more so in recent months for some reason, her appetite being insatiable lately. Yesterday she said she was going to Chic-Fil-A to get some lunch to bring home, for example...she comes back with a chicken sandwich, an order of fries, a large order of chicken nuggets, and a side salad. I was outside painting our house and came inside just to see her mopping up the last chicken nugget in sauce on her plate. She ate everything. Then had 4 Reeseโs cups and two Mounds right after (we still have Halloween candy leftover). I almost came in my pants (joke) but seriously I have been so excited at the idea of my wife just getting fatter and fatter. Oof. Drives me crazy. For the record- she rarely eats fast food or heavily processed candy. Her go-to is home cooked meals and baked goods she mostly makes. But her portions are just always huge. Full disclosure, she (still to this day) is unaware of the extent of my love for big women. Any attention drawn to her weight gain is an awkward topic because then she starts thinking about her body and feels insecure. I do my best to worship her curves and make her feel sexy in her skin. Now, I donโt think she is completely oblivious ...she obviously knows I like โbig womenโ and that her curves turn me on...but at the same time I donโt think it really โclicksโ with her that it straight up drives me crazy and that her hanging belly is whatโs getting me so worked up. I donโt need to explain to you guys the level of fat-taboo/shaming we all grow up with. BUT NOW- something has clicked a little (I hope). She was complaining about her clothes not fitting the other day...and after making her feel better about just how much sexier she looked now...SHE FINALLY SAYS โmaybe I should go shopping for some bigger clothes this weekendโ ๐ฏ To me, this was finally admitting that she is a MUCH bigger girl than when we met (85 lbs ๐ฅต) and that maybe she was finally feeling ok about it... Meanwhile, I have been absolutely ravenous for her. I find it hard not to squeeze her ass or grab her tummy (she still sucks it in though) when sheโs cooking or getting dressed. Itโs so hard to just...keep my hands off her. Sheโs SO BEAUTIFUL. Sex has been ๐ฅต ๐ฅต ๐ฅต she has been hornier as well as (obviously) me. Sheโll finish a huge meal and dessert and unbutton her pants saying โOof Iโm STUFFED.โ and Iโll find a way to pause our movie and kiss her. We usually migrate to the bedroom and take off her clothes. Sheโs been wearing this sexy lingerie lately that she spills out of but adds a really hot form to her fat curves. She usually wants to start with her on bottom and she often wants me to go down on her. No problem there. Her thighs are huge now and her fupa is plump (was one of the last things to catch up). I can usually barely see her face above her dinner stuffed belly. Then the HOTTEST thing has been happening lately. I get on top of her and after a few moments she has to make me arch up....because her belly is so big and full that I am squishing her too much. This used to never be a thing. Weโd almost hug when Iโd be on top of her. Now I have to push my arms up and let her belly hang out. This turns me on even more. Eventually, she usually starts riding me and her weight on top of me gets my blood hot. I usually try to pivot my head to the right or left of her so I can see just how huge her gut is bouncing on top of my chest. The sound of it slapping and plopping down over and over is so hot itโs ridiculous. The best though...is when she is too tired to keep going, or she has already come multiple times (I can hold out a long time, crazily enough)...then she finishes me sometimes off by climbing on top of my face with her big belly...and smothers me with it until I canโt breathe. She jerks me off with her hand until I come. I donโt last long. Itโs too. Damned. Hot. In closing, I am just dreaming that she continues to grow...maybe up to 260, 285, 300+ ...I think my heart would burst if she made it to 330 or something. Sheโd have to file a restraining order because I wouldnโt be able to keep my hands off her ๐ญ I donโt actively play a part in her weight gain because I feel that should be a womanโs choice. Itโs her body and her free will to do what she feels best doing. But I certainly encourage her curves and make her feel sexy as often as I can. Sometimes Iโll encourage dessert. Thatโs all. In a *strictly* fantasy I have sometimes...Iโll imagine slipping crushed weight gain pills into her coffee creamer...or appetite stimulant...or of course making her weight gain shakes. That gets me flustered. But in reality I would never dishonor her by doing something like that behind her back. Fun to dream about though. Does anyone have any advice on how to help my wife feel comfortable in her new body and possibly comfortable enough to continue to gain? Her mom bugs her a lot to lose weight (sheโs an old fashioned stick) and there is always all this pressure from the outside world telling us fat is ugly. Itโs hard for a woman not to buy into it...anyway, I love this community. Hope you enjoyed the read. Happy to talk more- thanks!
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So yesterday I found out that someone I had been in contact with started modeling on here. When I knew this person they werenโt into feederism at the time, or at least not to my knowledge. It was long distance, stuff over Skype, but they were close enough that we had planned to meet up at one point before things fell off. There was no falling out or anything, eventually things just got really busy and we lost communication. I used to have a few means of contact but all their old social media is no longer around. I donโt have enough reputation to message directly but Iโm very curious to reach out. Should I do it? Whatโs a good way of going about that without DMs, or am I just going to have to rack up the reputation? I donโt want to post anything publicly on their wall or anything because if they got rid of old social media Iโm assuming theyโre concerned about the privacy of their identity and I want to respect that.
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So, I've always been skinny, though I've also been fascinated with the idea of having a big belly to jiggle around. This fascination has led me to contemplate gaining weight to get that belly I desire. The issue is that I am actually comfortable with my skinny self, and might not like my body if I gain weight. Furthermore, I worry that even if I take a chance and put on weight, if I don't like it, then I won't be able to go back. At the same time, I feel like I could miss out on something enjoyable if I stay skinny, leaving me conflicted and deprived. To that end, men who started intentionally gaining when you were still skinny, what persuaded you to take that first step?
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I notice a lot of the male members that post on the feed, seem to not have a very good understanding or relationship with girls. Especially when they can't see past the physical, or even the fetish itself. Feel like you need some advice? Drop it below. I'll help you. Or maybe other babes can drop in and leave their advice, too. Don't know how to start a conversation, or treat a girl? JUST ASK!
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So, most of this probably isnโt relevant, but Iโm going to write this just in case, as background information. My girlfriend and I have been dating for seven months now, we met in person as friends but we live a long way away from each other, so since we started dating, weโve been dating long distance the whole time, and I am partially blind while she is fully blind. I told her about my preference for fat girls in December, and as expected, she seemed kind of confused about it (admittedly, I could have done a better job, I was just nervous). Weโve talked about it a couple of times since then, but it seems like sheโs accepted it for the most part. An important point that I forgot to mention is that sheโs 5โ 1โ (1.47m) and 105lbs (48kg). Originally when we met, based on what I could see plus a handful of times that I accidentally ran into her, I had thought that she was kind of chubby, but nope. So, hereโs the thing. She has told me that she doesnโt care about her weight in the slightest, and has even mentioned that sheโs kind of jealous of one of my exes that Iโve told her about, because she was 300lbs (136kg). There are two things holding her back from gaining, from what I can tell. First, she has the strangest appetite. Some days, she can eat a bacon cheeseburger with fries and a soda and still be hungry. Other days, however, she just eats a granola bar and that keeps her full all day long. She frequently skips meals, in her own words, out of sheer laziness. The other thing holding her back, though, seems to be the bigger barrier. She is really, really a perfectionist. From my understanding, to her, the fact that to me her appearance isnโt perfect really upsets her. To the point where she would rather just not address it than face it and concede that she could improve herself in my eyes. To clarify, I love her. I love her as she is, I love her for who she is. I think that she is beautiful as she is (especially since she has a surprisingly large double chin for a girl her size). Currently, I donโt plan to raise the topic again until it comes up naturally. My philosophy on it is that weโre long distance right now anyway, so itโs not worth upsetting her about it. All that I can do is to keep calling her beautiful and giving her compliments to boost her self esteem. But I mean, I know that I have no right to dictate how she looks or anything ridiculous like that. Itโs just that, yโknow, I can help but imagine her a hundred pounds heavier. So... Even though I donโt think Iโm going to take action any time soon, does anyone have any advice or opinions?
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Since my last "Secretly Fattening Up Your Girlfriend" wasn't the best quality, I decided to redo it! In this video I give you 5 sneaky and effective tips to secretly get your significant other to gain weight rapidly and without them even realizing it's happening until they're the size you want them to be. I've personally gained over 40kgs (88lbs) in 2 years, so I know what I'm talking about... SO get your notebooks out and get ready to take some tips - your skinny girlfriend (or wife) will be a big, voluptuous woman that will put Marilyn Monroe to shame in no time!$9.99
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Retirement Sale Originally $2.99 Now $2.00 Having trouble finding your person, or sharing this fetish with a partner? Wanna hear advice from a model, feedee, and someone whoโs been in multiple relationships (feederism and not)? Than look no further! Iโve got a dating + play advice video for you! This video covers everything from finding a feedee (and feeder), sharing your fetish with your partner, approaching models and established feeders, and how to win a feeders heart (it takes a bit more than cake!). Dating can be hard for everyone, add a fetish and desire many can see as taboo, and things can get even harder! Best of luck in your quest for love and pleasure! *clip filmed in portrait mode final gif is framing.$2
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Kind of an out of left field question, but does anyone have a mattress that they really love? Given the time of year here in the NYC metro area, Iโm probably gonna be bulking back up into the 370 pound range and my wife will probably be about 275 to 300 by the time we get through the holidays. Weโve burned through a couple cheaper mattresses given our size and I was wondering if anyone here had some recommendations for a couple that gains together. We both work jobs that require long hours on our feet, and as we get bigger, I was wondering if there was anything out there for us that someone here could speak to the quality of.
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Hi, haven't found any thread on a busty webcam girl from 2010s named Xo Gisele. What you think of her belly shape? It's been discussed on other forums that her belly looked very strange toward the end of her webcam days. Any suggestions? ๐ could it be a lipo done in her early modeling days and a weight gain later on? Or could it be some sort of gastric band or something? Early photos Later
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Somehow I'm down 6 pounds. Haven't been eating as much as usual. Been stressed with work and the new college semester starting. Any recommendations on what to eat to beef back up plus some? Would like to gain atleast 10 pounds within a month if possible. ๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅจ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ Also maybe some ideas for stuffing videos?
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I (25M) have recently started dating for the first time in about two years, and I have found myself in a generally very comfortable relationship with someone I met online (24F). She's a genuine ray of sunshine (which is a very nice contrast with the dysfunctionality of my last relationship) and I do find her very good-looking, but she is significantly bigger than I was expecting, and I'm not sure exactly how to handle some of the physical side of things. When I saw her pictures, I was expecting somebody in the ballpark of about 300 pounds, but having met with her in person I would put her at least 450. I should say that while I enjoy physical intimacy (naked cuddling and the like), I've never been very interested in actual sex, especially since I am clumsy, nervous, and easily discouraged in bed. I've made a few attempts at it with her, but I've had difficulty working past her hips and thighs. Some of this can be helped by improving my flexibility and working to boost my confidence, but a bit of advice on the subject would be appreciated.
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I know i haven't posted in a while but i have had some random stuff on my mind lately.. Firstly, my urge to feed and interact with a female is increasing just as much as my waistline these days. You would be surprised how hard it is to start conversations about that kind of stuff though.. (in person and even online). If i meet a girl and get to know her and decide that want to approach the erotic weight gain subject with her, what are some ideas on how to start that conversation? Or what are some common signs she might be in to the whole erotic weight gain thing? Girls tend to say things that end up being more innocent than i interpret them to be.. Which will sometimes lead to me hurting their self esteem and i dont want that at all!! Some advice on this would be wonderful!! Especially from women too
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Hi, Iโve posted a few comments before but I will be getting my license soon and was wondering what some good tips would be for a fast gain with the new freedom of driving where I want. I hope to start getting a ton of fast food and increasing my appetite as much as possible. What fast food places and fattening meals do you recommend that are on the lower priced side and easy to eat a lot of? I currently weigh around 108 and remain at the same weight no matter how much I eat so any tips would be great!
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I'm 20, she's 21 - been dating for a couple weeks. I'm fairly big but she's about twice the size of me (but a few inches shorter). She wears lots of nice dresses which I tell her always look great on her (and I lean her towards the more revealing ones). I tease her with food a bit, tell her to "fuck it's Christmas" that buffet/cake/tub of Celebrations, that type of thing. We also try and make each other jealous with our food and treats which I started off (I'm not really a feeder but I know she likes her food). She also said she snuggles the best (she wasn't lying) because she's fat and I was like they're the best kind but apart from that I really try not to touch on her weight but I'd love to start! I've obviously said I love her big ass and tiddies but again, that's just standard. TLDR: I just want my compliments to be more personal really. What safe compliments do you guys give / or have received that tease about being big but aren't offensive or can't be taken as offensive? *WE MET ON A CONVENTIONAL DATING SITE
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So long story short I am meeting for the first time a woman who I have been encouraging to gain weight for over a year. She is almost 240 lbs and is very attractive at least imo. We have skyped, etc. over that period of time so I am not worried about a Catfish situation. Really what has me concerned is what do we do? I mean not what do we do like when we go out but what kind of stuffing related things would be cool to try. She asked me to think of some things and I am kind of drawing a blank so any help would be appreciated.
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So I married a FA which is totally cool with me, but I've had some hurdles as someone new to this whole thing. And would like some insight... I love not having to worry about my weight and even being encouraged to have extras, however I had an eating disorder as a teenager due to a controlling asshole boyfriend. I'm also in the medical field and it's always in the back of my mind the health implications. With that said we've done stuffings and had a blast, and there was a period of time that I was actively gaining. That was great.. but then I started to notice the health things which make me hessitate (I got up to around 200). Currently I'm around 185-190 which makes me able to breathe better (my job is very demanding... So that's kinda a necessity as I run around helping others) With that said I know he would love to have me up closer to 230-250... Depending on how it looks on me (average height). I just feel that since he told me that he's an FA unless I'm stuffing my face he's not as sexually interested. Keep in mind I'm a solid 40lbs heavier than when we first met... Which leads to my confusion. With all of this said I know he loves me no matter what.. etc blah blah blah .. but I'm just looking to understand better, because I know he's on forums/Facebook looking at pictures of 200+women which I've told him is fine.. as long as its not someone we know (too personal), but I feel semi neglected at home, because whenever I try to "show him attention" he's somehow always tired. Could someone please give me a different perspective/advice because I don't know what to do to spice things up in the meantime of me being not as soft as he would like.
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Hi! I have a dilemma I need all members of the feedism community to help, my life partner is the most attractive woman ever, but she is a bottomless Pitt of food, her weight has plateaued and I can sense that sheโs becoming frustrated tho Iโve tried to talk to her saying things such as โyou look beautiful at any weightโ which is true! Her feedee self is becoming frustrated! The problem is most of the fattening foods are sweet and she cannot handle sweets well! Sheโs also a vegetarian but sheโs been trying meat again lately! I love my fiancรฉ to death but I hate seeing her so disappointed in herself, she loves salty foods but looking at statistics to make up the equivalent of one desert would take about 10x the amount of salty foods! Please help this girl needs to gain weight soon or I fear she will start taking it out on herself
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A friend on this site recently suggested I answer some love and romance questions from other people with our kink! I've been into feedism since I was a wee one (many of you might even remember me from when I was 18 and new to the community!) and have a lot of real world experience navigating dating with this fetish from casual to serious relationships ๐ I love talking about love, sex, and kink in general so no need to limit your posts to just feedism - although it's definitely my biggest kink ๐ท ๐๐ Let me be your love guru ๐๐ (**I will not answer questions about secretly fattening anyone, or any questions that feel objectifying/mean/gross**)
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my girlfriend has been on board with gaining weight for a while. At 5'0" she started at 90 lbs in 2012 and is now a comfortably plush 130 lbs. she's adorable, but she wants to gain more weight. problem is, about for the last year, she's had a lot of trouble doing so. she's got a small appetite, so we fight on that front sometimes. is there anything you'd suggest to help push her over the plateau? she was up to 140 at one point but she struggled to maintain it, I think she's got a fast metabolism
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๐ Welcome to feedee academy - a haven for weight gainers and inspiring feedees from around the world! I hope you enjoy watching my onboarding interview with @Candii_Kayn and learn about how she will be tested and given every advantage to gain massively at my school ๐๐ Candii has already gained a LOT, but we do things a little differently.. I ask Candii some feedee questions and teach her some ways she can maximize her belly and thrive at her new school. We go over how to dress like a feedee, how to eat like one and more! this video is a hot roleplay with some fun body comparisons AND gives real life feedee advice to anyone into mutual gaining, even if youโre not a gainer I know itโll turn you on ๐$12.99
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Back for more weight gain advice, huh? Olivia has some additional tips to fatten you up! Even a secret to share. The fatter she's gotten, the more attention she receives. An attention she didn't get at an average weight. You're aching to get that too. You want to grow your belly to be perfect. Big, round, and jiggly - like Olivia's! There is no shortage in teasing you, making you envious of her tummy and perfectly fattened body- as the useful information is revealed. How many of these things are you going to start doing, fatty?$6.99
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